Feeling really down and anxious about the fact that a few of my close team members were laid off. Tips for adjusting into my new work environment and continuing to job search without feeling so anxious all the time?

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Hopefully you don’t end up carrying the workload of multiple people.

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It's not easy. Confide in someone you trust.... this app is the best because, really, outside of trolling you, who would have any incentive to lie to you?

Find something fun to focus and level up on your skill... could be gaming, coding, cooking, baking... get good at something that's not work or love. Get good at it because you just like it.

Spend a few minutes practicing mindfulness, asking yourself: what's the worst that can happen?

My apartment faces the skyline in NYC, so i just lie down and watch the clouds pass, time pass, and i think: what's the worse that could happen?

Me out of work, can't pay the bills, Trump writes me a check... really, what's the bottom? What's the worst that can happen? Once I knew the rock bottom, I acknowledged it and know this too shall pass.

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I wouldn’t lean too much on this app. Too much doom and gloom far too often, almost as if people are cheering for the worst every time.

It’s reasonable to talk to a dr about anti anxiety meds or talk therapy even if it’s temporary. We are in uncharted waters.

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valium and weed

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