First time parent in a dual career household (both PMs in consulting). How do you navigate the transition to parenthood and the consulting life with a young kid? Any practical tips on managing the day-to-day? Wife is going back to work in a few months and we’re quite anxious about how to balance careers (long hours and occasional travel) and family life.

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