Going to join after 6 months of break.
Left job for my kid but couldn't bear the invisible pressure of being unemployed. It took a long time to select a company with a work life balance but it also depends on what kind of people you have there in your team. I am excited as well as sad. Sometimes I think mom's guilt is god given cos he wants us to care and not because of society. How do you deal with leaving your kid?

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Having Guilt is normal.
Make sure you separate the work and personal time. Try to do office work once you get home.

If it's WFH, don't slam the door on your kid anytime, it will make the baby lose connection with you. Babies feel every emotion that we show and that's how they connect with people.

You have to make sure, you spend enough time with your kid whenever you get.

Even if you keep Nanny for the kid, make sure you don't lose a tiniest connection with the baby and enjoy this precious time with baby.

There will be people judging you for not taking care full time. Just ignore them.

Working moms sacrifice so much, I hope people around you respect and support you.
All the Best!

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