Good gay bars in San Francisco? Alt traveling with the bf

Hi!! Transitioning to a remote work situation and have decided to leave my Texas roots for the west coat rays! Trying to move around September of this year but would love to chat with anyone also in San Diego! I won’t know many people so even if you wanted to work remote together a day of the year that works too! I have a chocolate lab and love a good HH! maybe will start a group chat?

My date won’t share his playlist with me (I can listen to it but he won’t share it). Just curious, is playlist a big deal to guys? We are both at early 20s and only dated for a week

Looking for a dog friendly 2BD or 2BD+Den apt/condo/rental in the Reston/Tysons/Arlington corridor with min 1300 sq ft. For context, we’re moving to the area from a house out of state and need a bit of extra space to store furniture/boxes while we house hunt. I’m open to recommendations as well as any other creative ideas 😌

At 5 we compare toys, at 15 we compare friends, at 20 we compare colleges, at 25 we compare jobs and flight points, at 35 we compare houses and kids, at 95...🤔.

34/male /northern VA/white/balding/starting to get a dad bod/im probably single for a reason

Super appealing right?

I keep watching Schitt's Creek reruns now and then. It makes me feel warm and mushy, but also super lonely. So tired of being perpetually single. I know it's been posted about here a bunch of times before but it still sucks. Venting and knowing you're not alone, helps a tiny bit. =) Also does anybody else thing Patrick is essentially just a 'too good to be true' fantasy boyfriend Dan Levy dreamed up and put on the show?

Travel - didn’t see it unless I missed the thread. What’s the travel % right now for SM/P and does it depend on capability team or same % across the board?

Best areas to live in if have to commute to DTLA two days a week and partner has to travel to Riverside next year? Ideally we don't want to move twice. Hoping to not have longer than 1 hr commute with traffic in either direction. Please be kind I know LA traffic is horrible- I don't need a lecture about how bad it is lol

Can someone explain the Marriott status process to me? I am one year away from hitting life time status but doesn’t look like I am going to hit the 75 nights this year to keep titanium. (Cont. below)

What is a good/ expected salary for an AE in San Fransisco?
What’s livable?

Recs for LA & San Fran??

Does anyone have a fair idea what the salary range for a Director of Acquisitions in San Diego would be?

Good places to grab a drink solo? Im a 25yo woman.

Has anyone ever tried to use their PIV card to book the GSA rate for a personal hotel stay

CSR or Delta Reserve? SO is military so the fees are waived. He already has the Amex Platinum and I have the Chase Sapphire Preferred.

Gate 35X bus at DCA is the bane of my existence; need to stop being staffed in the Midwest

29M from Kerala, living in Chicago. Looking to find someone local to seriously date. Please DM if you’re interested!

When would our leave expires? End of December this year or by 31st January 2023?

I have to take atleast 6 more leaves else it would expire .

Yesterday I made a blanket fort with my husband and we watched a movie and ate ice cream. Yes, it was awesome.

Hi Fishes, looking for Data Analytics, Product Analytics and BI opportunities. I have 7.4 years of experience and currently serving notice period. Last working day is 10th April.

if you across any positions or can refer, please comment below and I will DM you. Cheers!

Looking for advice and recommendations on starting a non-profit healthcare case management company in my area. The focus population served would be low-income seniors with the primary customers being primary care offices that could obtain contracted case management services based on the practice’s needs/financial constraints.

I have my MSW & nearing completion of my MBA. I have 11 years experience, 6 in healthcare inpatient&outpatient.

What recommendations do you have on starting this process?

Can’t decide between Hanoi or Ho Chi Minh city for 5 days in Vietnam. Also is it necessary to join a tour group? Thoughts?

Is cheaper to book flights at the airport, online, or over the phone? Looking to book a flight was a 3-weeks out date

It’s been asked before whether it’s worth it to pay (~$150) to upgrade a 3 hr flight. I generally agree it is not. But what if your two tweenagers bicker nonstop and are complete and total jerks to you all the time and your spouse chooses the “they’ll grow out of it” approach to things so basically you just want 3 hours of alone time. Then is it worth it?

(Note, in this scenario, they are all entirely too naive to realize it isn’t a system comped upgrade.)

Doing an India trip next year. Thoughts on spending 2/3 days in Jaipur? Too much? Any tips? TIA

Any suggestions on cracking a product management interview at a telecommunications company! I have been working as a software engineer for the past 10 years and now looking towards transitioning to product management. Any advice is welcome.

Want referral for java developer with Spring boot and Microservices with 2+ years of experience.

Hello folks,

I am a TAC enginner with Cisco ,yoe 14 , currently on CTC 18, Is this normal ?

Thanks,

I finished up with final interviews on Monday. Is it a bad sign that I’m still waiting to hear back today? Don’t companies typically reach out almost immediately with an offer if they choose you?

I teach British Lit. For anyone else who teaches this, what are some of your favorites to teach? I have been doing Beowulf, The Canterbury Tales, Macbeth, Etc., but want to add something new this year

I've been here (NYC) for 4 years already but for some reason I'm not happy. My first job out of college is okay but not thrilling. I have this constant sense of hopelessness and doom.

Hi after technical discussion in Infosys I got mail to upload PAN Card, offer letter or compensation letter, photo and application form to fill and upload.
Can anyone plz confirm whether I’m selected for technical round?

Hey
If anyone wants referral for PWC AC Dm me :)
(Mostly wfh)

Anyone with experience in the short term rental space willing to connect?

I was in the market for a first time home in New York but the market and rates got too out of hand. Recently pivoted to a few out of state options for an STR and would love to learn from someone who's set one up.

Thanks!

Hey! Can anyone recommend me a good facialist in downtown/brickell?

Any non-cishet male folks want to chat? Missing community right now!

I want to buy my husband some underwear for Valentine’s Day. What brand do you guys like?

I live in CT, in the Greater Hartford area (mentioning that to express that I’m not in an urban setting). Does anyone have suggestions for how to find LGBTQ friends to connect with?

There’s now a lawsuit in Texas challenging PREP. How much longer do y’all plan to live in the US? This is actually how I predicted this would unfold. That folks with moral objections would file a lawsuit like this, and then get it up to The Church for review, and then overturn Lawrence v Texas. This is just happening a lot faster than I thought.

Do you guys check Grindr on your office network?

Well I recently told a guy I have been seeing I have HSV-2. We have not yet been physical but it’s been heading that direction. Man I hate this part - waiting to see what his response will be after he researches and talks to his doctor. I’m on daily meds which help reduce transmission risk. You’d think that since HSV-2 affects 20% of Americans and likely a higher % of gay men, there would be less taboo but it’s hardly ever talked about. Anyone else in my shoes? Or had it disclosed to them?

Overseas on a study and finding a hot expat to help me with some in-room dining.. sometimes we get food. This job is alright sometimes

How do you shave/trim your beard without dropping the hair in the sink or on the floor? 🙏

What’s up my queer fam! I’m posting to you guys because I’m 27 I just moved to Miami from Philly and I came out today for the first time to one of my fraternity bro from penn state, who also happens to be gay, coming out a year or so after graduating. But anyway, it felt really good telling someone and also just finally admitting to myself to the first time that ya im a gay man. Idk it’s still weird to say but it feels good. But here’s my issue now. I feel like guys when they come out they’ll

Need some advice. My friend hooked up with someone who is now my GF but back when I was in a relationship with someone else. Now that her and I are dating I can’t help but feel weird when my friend and GF chat. Is that weird or normal?

The new junior on my team is from the South and refers to me as “Sir” and it’s making me feel all kinds of ways. How to proceed from here?

Anyone know a way to get a cheap flight this coming festive period?

Rant. This guy I have been talking to started making me feel bad about who I am and my roots. About how not American I am. He started calling me odd. I blocked him but now I feel inadequate.

Solo trip to Puerto Rico. Any recs? Thanks fam.

Let’s move out of NYC SF together lol . Maybe try LA ?

I know I will get hated by saying this. Do you think gay pride events are portraying a bad image about our community to public? (Drugs, sexual, inappropriate clothes, and sometimes like strip clubs- some parts). I know it is right to present us but I just feel it is not the right way to show who we are. I wish the pride where everybody can connect in a more friendly way (outdoor game- team work, dance, drink something not too sexual.) there are some good parts of pride tho. Any opinions?

Miami for Memorial Day long weekend, anyone? Or any recommendations for this weekend ?

Someone I’ve started seeing uses they/them pronouns. I’m trying my best but still feel like I make mistakes. When I want to address them is it ok to say how are you or should I say how are they?