I live in CT, in the Greater Hartford area (mentioning that to express that I’m not in an urban setting). Does anyone have suggestions for how to find LGBTQ friends to connect with?

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And then you travel to meet us in urban areas lol

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CT wasn’t exactly a great place to live when I was coming out in my mid 30s (was about an hour from Hartford). I had to travel to find things that I wanted to do (gay ski clubs out of Boston or NY for example) - not much nearby. Google whatever you like doing plus the word gay. Good luck.

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