Headed to court tomorrow for child support - somehow mediated child custody - a year in the making after 2 years after divorce. I could use some positive energy.

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Update: Judge ruled in my favor and child support decreased by $200 a month. Because it’s pro-rated, ex also had to write me a check on the spot for money owed since I filed in December. Ex was livid. Had she mediated the day before it would’ve been an increase of $50/mo for her. Now it’s $200 decrease. She could appeal or file later for a change of circumstance. But for now, I have a small win.

Thanks for the energy.

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May the best parent win 👍

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OP, it’s a sincere wish for the kids

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