Hi All, I joined an organisation and had known a senior professional from my previous organisation. As soon as I started talking to people in the team or the minute I made a reference of how I had known her.I have been judged time and again and cornered by the team.they don't seem to know what and how to talk and keep saying things about me in public..I did raise this to the HR head and now I'm being judged and called that I am portraying myself as a victim. how do I work in such an environment?

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