Hi Fishes,

This post is related to relationship. Need advice.

My girlfriend is working at mnc. I always keep thinking that she should be safe and no one should hurt her.

Also, she has boy best friend and i completely trust her, but still I want her to be safe from strangers.

As a boyfriend, this keeps running in my mind.

Please advise me, I'm just 24 years old.

Thanks in advance.

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Thoughts?

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Thank you in advance.

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I got offer from Experis IT - 4.5 LPA, Randstad- 6.15 LPA, Intellect Design Arena- 5.8 LPA
YOE- 2.5 years
Qualification- MBA(HR)

Which one would be best to join as Talent Acquisition/Talent Advisor designation as per work culture, company policy, growth and work life balance.

Thanks in advance.

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