How do I confront my manager who is emotionally blackmailing me as I have put down my papers.
He is saying that thay have shown trust in me and I am breaking the trust.Its so irritating and make no sense to me. He is ready to offer me 30% hike and Canada Visa. I know these are his tricks to make me stay and once I stay then there is no surety when will I travel to onsite and there will be no hike for me next year along with the low performance ratings.

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You stay there.. Your manager is a wonderful person.. He will show you good time

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Just get out of that environment soon as possible. If you’re despo for onsite, take the assurance in written. Also, you’ll get better hike outside. Way better than 30%. If your manager doesn’t like you or vice versa, just find better option and leave. Nothing important than mental health.

Don't rethink.

It's part of his KRA to stop attrition, else he will be questioned.. also with your experience they can't get outside candidate with similar salary they have to pay more and also the time..

Just say no. No means no. No matter how many times he repeats it. Eventually he will get irritated.

Dude what is your current CTC and how much u r getting outside

Dude, Just close your eyes and ears blindly and move ahead.

Don't stay back, its will become toxic once retained

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Just say no and step out .
They should have done all these before you file your resignation.

Dont think of getting retained, let him talk, thats what he can do. You do whats best for you, decision is always yours.

Keep in mind that VISAs are taking longer than usual due to covid backlog. If you start now, it will take at least an year for you to reach Canada.

Speaking from experience.

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