How do you deal with 2 Yr old being sick from nursery every other week? Wife also works and so given I’m WFH I’m more flexible and take care of him but is it normal to be sick so often? Like at least once a month where he has a fever and can’t go nursery for a few days

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Yes - very normal. You should expect your kid to be sick off and on THE FIRST TWO YEARS that they’re in daycare.

Yes - you read that right. It’s normal.

To be fair - it was mostly because upper respiratory infections, so coughs and snotty noses. Fevers will be less common.

Everyone I know basically has one partner with a job that has a lot more flexibility. That job gets less priority and that’s the only way they make it work. Or they have a nanny which means the kids don’t get sick as often.

Yep. Very normal.

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