How do you deal with Impostor’s Syndrome and insecurity? I recently joined an agency as ACD, and sometimes I feel like I am not as good as my team… My teammates are so intelligent and quick. Also, feeling like I have to prove myself to earn their respect stresses me a lot. Sometimes I rather don’t talk, which I know isn’t helpful. Any advice on how to boost my confidence and show them that I deserve a space there?

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Know that you aren’t the only one feeling that way; we have all been through it and will go through what you described every time we change job. I’m starting a new job as a CD next week on an account/product category I have no experience in. So I will be going through what you are going through. It usually takes 3-6 months to know an account and how the agency works. Might be longer with working remotely. Just do your best. You will be okay.

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A lot of this comes from being the new person entering a situation where everyone else is already comfortable and established. The dynamics work in their favor.

Keep plugging away and doing your best and you should reach that same level of comfort.

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Keep learning and absorbing info. You're new, so I'm sure your team is more than willing to answer any questions you have without judgement. Learning through practice is the best way to build your knowledge, which will eventually build your confidence.
Also, think about requesting some Director-level trainings. I've taken a few manager trainings and they definitely get into imposter syndrome and how to deal with it.

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I love this reply. Concur 100%. Also, I would add that, before questioning yourself on a skills level (I’m sure you have them and i’m sure you know you have them too even if you’re doubting yourself now), question yourself what kind of lead you want to be. Perhaps your role is more about leveraging other’s ideas and shaping them than pinging new ideas on an empty wall. At the end of the day, it’s team work over personal egos.

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You got this! You can do it! You’re bringing something to the table different from the others.

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Well, it’s easier to be honest with yourself. The reality is you *do* need to prove yourself when dealing with people that have high standards. And you don’t “deserve space” there. You earn it by being skilled and effective. It’s fine to feel the way you’re feeling, because you can succeed regardless of your feelings.

Stay true to yourself, you got the job because you stood out. Talk the talk and walk the walk, be nice to people and listen and try to make allies. Unfortunately, there are always insecure people who might feel threatened and you have to navigate that.

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