How do you know if your spouse is cheating on you or not ? Are there any red flags to notice ?

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Check their deleted apps

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How does one look this up ?

Catch them in lies.

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Do you know where they are most of the time? My husband and I almost always know where the other person is from natural conversation. We don’t fret if someone is somewhere unexpected, but it’s normal for married people to know where their spouses are. Do you guys spend more time with each other outside of work than with other people?

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People change. However, change is incremental for most people most of the time.
If you notice massive shifts in attitudes or behaviors that seem abrupt, have a conversation about it.
The earlier you notice, the more likely the indiscretion will have not had a chance to get justified in the consciousness. This will make it harder to lie effectively.
Don't make accusations, just say something like "I've noticed you are... lately. Can we talk about it?"
Also, if you are just a jealous type and wrong, you look like you care and not an ass.

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Last 2 lines … Thank you 🙏🏻

I echo the above- I know where my husband is most of the time and he calls me every day if he’s working out of town. Also- is the SO careful about his/her phone? I know my SOs password and we’ve had to let the other borrow a phone on occasion but we don’t have any secrets so we have no reservations about it. Another factor I would read into is if your SO has had a change in demeanor. Back when I was dating this was a warranted red flag for me.

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Hate to ask, but, what are you looking to achieve ?

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Trying to understand .. if we are growing apart as a couple and if a third person is the reason

This won't help understand if you are growing apart. You know it already. It gives u a reason to blame :)

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