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Friendly is good! Too friendly would be developing an intimate relationship with a colleague.
I’ve met some of my best friends at work, and we don’t joke around too much at work to the point where management thinks we’re distracted.
Definitely protect your personal information / anything they could hold against you until you build a trusting relationship with them.
I make it a point to ask/talk about personal lives outside of work all the time; I want to get to know my colleagues and I want them to trust me as well.
When going out for lunch or dinner amongst colleagues, I make sure not to badmouth anyone or the company. You’ll also see more of their true colors outside of work too, it’s worth noting what type of people you work with. Keep it light but real!
Having genuine friendships with colleagues makes going to work a lot more enjoyable. Be yourself! As long as everyone is getting work done and respecting each other, it’ll be fine.
That's awesome to hear! I worry too though about things turning sour and then ruining work because you're right, people don't show their true colors at work
I see it as, I share my weekend plans (going to dinner!) but not the details (took 14 sake bombs!)
A good distinction 😂😂
Yes, I never develop deep relationships with coworkers. It's too risky.
It's easier in certain companies, I guess. I used to be at a company run by a bunch of old white men and it was pretty easy not to get overly friendly. But now I actually work with some cool people
I always end up best friends with someone I work with so I probably don't have good boundaries with coworkers haha. But I would say anything that makes you uncomfortable is crossing the line of too friendly.
The friendliest I'd get with a manager would be going for dinner and a few drinks after work as a team (not one-on-one). Co-workers is a different story. Some of my closest friends I've made over the years I've met at work.
Ugh, just had to have a meeting with my manager about one of my coworkers that was just doing the absolute most.
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Boss tried to hit on me once. After that, I set hard boundaries.
*shouldn't say tried, he did.