How many of you are doing back up care/day care/ child care vs managing children at home? What's your thoughts around this, pros and cons?

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Managing child at home and I am so torn about day care/child care. This isn't sustainable either. :-(:-(

Daycare, I need to identify multiple back up options. Childcare at home for a toddler is unsustainable. We did it late covid with a baby, it was horrendous but fine. I could see it fine for an older kid. Again nothing is sustainable except full time care + back up options

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