How often do you travel? My wife loves travelling, it's not my thing but I do it to make her happy. We take 2-3 trips every year and I feel like that's a lot. Her justification is that we make decent money and don't have kids, so why not? I'd rather just take one nice trip and save/invest/pay off mortgage with the money we would spend on travel.
What do you all think?

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My husband gives us both, many trips all year long and has us investing to the max. Also no kids but we don’t spend much on fancy cars, clothes or fancy home.

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1 big trip every other year and maybe 3-4 small weekend trips, not including holidays

Wife and I are aligned on this. Decent money, 1 kid on the way.

We have family abroad, so we travel internationally quite a bit, just because of that.

Apart from family travel, we try to combine business trips with leisure travel. E.g. one of us has a work conference in an interesting location, so we tack on a couple of days afterwards.

We also travel budget friendly - so no resort travel, affordable boutique hotels, and using credit card miles.

Married, no kids.

A lot. And I frequently add side trips to my business trips. For 2025, I will do two vacations to Europe, a 3 day trip with friends, a week-long New England road trip in the fall, Holliday trip to see family. I also did a side trip (different city) to visit family when traveling to the east coast for work.

There’s no right and wrong here… it’s all about what you value spending your time and money on. I personally think taking one trip per year and staying home and paying off your mortgage sounds like an extremely boring way to live your life. Good travel should broaden your horizons, expose you to different cultures, new tastes and sites and sounds, push you out of your comfort zone in a gentle/safe way, and make you a different and better person. It’s possible you’re not traveling in a way that engages/enriches you. If you’re traveling anyway because your wife wants to, think hard about what kind of experiences would actually be worthwhile to you and discuss that with your wife (eg. are you doing more relaxed vacations when you’re an adventure guy? Are you going to new cities when you might prefer island life? Are you mostly going to restaurants when you travel but you’d rather take a history tour? Etc.)

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