How the heck do other parents manage to perform?? I just can’t operate at the same level as before our kid was born…at this point, my expectations for the next CRT is to not get put on a PIP

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I honestly thought i was the only one. I went from being highest performer to getting let go from 2 jobs for low performance. I’m back at a good firm but constantly trying to outperform for fear of underperforming again and now feel like I’m neglecting my children.

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