About to be a new dad. Starting to look into childcare but feeling a little overwhelmed. Would love to hear thoughts/opinions on what to look for besides convenience.

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Low staff turnover was important to me. Communication with staff is key. Clean facilities. Ask for the hours. Discipline policies. Safety of who is allowed in and out of building. Temperature of room

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Agree with D1, all these are important factors. In addition, ask about their accreditations, medical training of the staff (they should all have first aid training), medical emergency plan and overall education plan (Montessori vs others). Also, trust your instincts. If you feel uneasy at the place, cross it off your list

It’s wild out there. All the waiting lists emptied out when Covid hit, then they came right back twice as long. Plan ahead and be prepared for contingencies.

And be glad nobody is forcing your 2 year old to wear a mask indoors and outdoors these days. That was a real low point in child care and parenting.

Overall don’t worry - life as a parent gets way harder than finding a daycare.

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