I always freak out when any boss wants to talk to me. Could be good, but I’ve also had the unexpected bad convo. Hate that I always expect the worst.

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UPDATE: And it was literally just feedback -not a big deal! I actually have a boss that cares to help me.

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...was being more proactive in communication with your boss part of the feedback?

Nope. It’s very much proactive already - but I see what you did there 😉

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