I have a recurring problem where I feel there is just a general lack of respect for attorneys and that very few actually respect what an attorney has to say about anything. Is this an industry wide feeling that we have or am I experiencing this by myself?

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Clients often think they know better. So often they’d be better off if they’d visited an attorney to begin with … and generally these days, there is a total lack of respect for expertise in anything. Populism does NOT work for resolving legal, scientific, medical issues etc., etc.

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It’s not even clients per se. but like family and peers… being an attorney you get certain life experience and are receptive to just general information more so than the average person and you’d think the average person would be more inclined to defer to your opinion more often as a result.

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I had that same issue in my previous job (in-house). Ended up moving to a public company where my opinions and thoughts are well received and often followed by the management, it makes a world of a difference.

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