I like fun bars/lounges but nearly all of my friends are now engaged or actively oppose going to places like phd, avenue etc. how do I have a fun social life with boring friends??

Frustrated my fiancé keeps talking about raising our future kids in the way he was raised. We’re from different cultures. He wants to name them based on his culture, send them to schools with dual immersion in his language so “they don’t get too American,” and has even mentioned moving so they’re exposed to his homeland and culture. Religiously he is fine raising with both our relig but def wants them to participate in some of the orthodoxy of his more so (cont)

F*****-up story…please be constructive (but also open & direct)
With my wife for 14 years, 2 kids under 8y - both under a lot of pressure bc Covid/work/private life/… and have been (unconsciously) running away from our couple not working “since a long time” (dixit my wife). We want to try and fix it, but I also met someone new (not sure if she would even want me) and wondering if it’s worth fixing it (since we are trying/running/avoiding it for years) - just worried about the kids…any advice

I am considering to divorce my husband in California. I may be a contested one with child custody issues. Can anyone give me an idea on the cost of the divorce? I have to find a lawyer. What should I consider in lawyer to get effective results?

IBD came to states at 8. My cousins back home are getting arrange married. My parents are starting to pressure me and pity me. But I have no interest in following a "timeline" and am pretty ambivalent when it comes to kids. I already have a SO and do not see a reason to tie the knot just because other people my age are. Anyone else getting pressured and its getting annoying?

Any recommendations for books for desi parents ? Politics , economics, world order , self help

My mother is considering moving back to Korea...

What to do when your spouse is on a diff tangent in terms of finances? My wife wants to spend spend spend and I want to save save invest.

My anxiety is so bad in the mornings especially if im sleeping without my boyfriend. Depending on work-related stress, it can get better through the day but not always. I feel like i just want to be

Brand new (like, just-had-a-kid new) mom here. Life seems manageable with the baby sleeping much of the time. It gets worse from here doesn’t it? I’m scared 😱😱😱

Just lost out on two potential clients because they said they were concerned about how many clients I have. Currently have approx 250 households ( Ed Jones speak for mailing groups). I never thought that was a lot but now I am reevaluating. Curious as to how many relationships you all manage.

I’ve had to step away from social media for my own mental sanity as I have a major issue with comparing myself to peers when it comes to life stages. (Single female, 34, never married, no male prospects, dog mom.) As a result, I feel like I’m doing a disservice to myself professionally as social media is a HUGE communication channel. Any advice on staying away or including it in my life in healthy ways?

Have you walked away from somebody you loved? And why?

Note down 5-10 top questions you wish you would ask (or you would have asked) your significant other before you commit (or committed) to marriage ?

If you mention your own ethnicity in the response , that'd help.

Any book recommendations for grieving the death of an estranged parent?

I think I want to be in relationship, but I fear that I actually am just lonely and not actually ready for relationship.
I desperatly want someone that I can spend time with, laugh with, and tell good news to amongst so much else.
I don't know what to do or if anything can be done...

Thoughts anyone?

So much baggage brought into the relationship. 2 years in and just discovered a whole lot more. Its been mentally extremely difficult and it’s changed me as a person. Just venting but feel hopeless and I know my SO is suffering. Wish there was a solution but I’m losing hope

I can’t get over how meaningless my life is. I feel stuck in a dark tunnel with no light at the end. I don’t know what I’m doing in life. It’s overwhelming and makes me cry over every little thing. Is it too much to ask for me to just be happy in life? I’m 26 but I feel like this is all life has to offer.

For those on the mass DilMil thread started recently thanks to Mr. Ankur from product team! Hola 🤣🙌🏻

Hello Guys

Is it okay to share offer letters that we have with other company recruiters? Aren't offer letters strict and confidential. Can we refuse to show the same or what can we do in these situations

When traveling for the week, does EY strongly adhere to the no expensing lunch policy or is more of a keeping the amount per day under a threshold?

If you are taking sponsorship from your firm does that change your story around why X Business school? Do you let schools know you are going to take sponsorship? Does it increase your chances since they are paid upfront?

How’s it going?

Hi All, I have an urgent query regarding TCS BGC process. My issue is that I have worked in X, Y and Z companies.
In X company I worked for 26months but my pf account is there for last 13months, before that my salary was very low so sometimes I got salary in hand or in pay cheque. I do have salary account statement for most of the months except 3-4 months in between my tenure. Will I face any issue for this?
Note: I do have good relationship with X company.
Please give your valuable suggestions.

If anyone is moving back to the city/looking for a new lease in late July/August 1 and needs a roommate, please DM!

Are there any law firms out there with better comp than Big 4 tax and won’t work you more than 50 hours a week?

Hi Fishes,

Has anyone heard about SmartSoc. I have an offer from Capgemini and Smartsoc. Which one I should go for.

Smartsoc- 8lpa
Cap- 9lpa + 50k JB
YOE- 3.6

How is ZoomInfo as a company? How is the work culture? What is the salary growth?

What groups are best at tax valuations (e.g. IP and other asset valuations)?

Is it usually done by tax service lines or advisory service lines?

Non-tech person here: does anyone know how to download salesforce icons that can be used in PPT?

Has anyone used The Warton Group for 401k appointments? Seems like a lot of money for uncertain success...

Hi Fishes,

One of my friend is looking for change. She is having an offer from Tech Mahindra and LTI. LTI is paying 3lpa more then Tech Mahindra.

Which one is better between Tech Mahindra and LTI ?

Going to Jamaica for a bachelor party Memorial Day Weekend...da hell do I wear?

I am considering to divorce my husband in California. I may be a contested one with child custody issues. Can anyone give me an idea on the cost of the divorce? I have to find a lawyer. What should I consider in lawyer to get effective results?

What are some of the best consulting firms for digital strategy roles? Looking for a change and was wondering which of the T1/T2 firms have digital practices in Canada. I have applied to ATK and McK. BCG is working to establish their presence in Canada but their team is focused on establishing top down. Bain doesn’t have digital focus. Can anyone shed some light on other T2 firms?

What is the Notice period of Apisero?

Hi! Anyone have any recommendations for the best sites or platforms to resell clothes? Some are gently used and some are brand new.

Think it’s going to be a Djokovic / Murray final? Who’s gonna take it?

What are the best ways to increase my assets and decrease my liabilities? Specifically for the age range: 21–30, paying down my student debt, need to pick my next investment targets

My fellow remote workers: Do you ever run errands without saying anything during the day? I try
to go grocery shopping once a week around lunchtime. I just really can’t stand the crowds over the
weekend and I’d rather stay online later if it means getting my shopping done earlier.

Anyone in crypto compliance? What’s your background and how did you make it there? I’m in asset management compliance and want a change.

27 and have been in RM since I was a summer analyst. What other roles/fields can I possibly do to sort of sustain this income without an MBA or CFA? Other than IR.. Serious replies only 🙏 TY!

Curious. What's everyone's all in tax rate at year end (first and second years). Thanks. Looking for a percentage.

IB Analyst, want to move banks. Searching via my contacts but want to expand my network with cold outreach. Should I reach out to MD's or VP/Directors?

But seriously, who are these people with titles but no companies?

My boss’ boss wants to catch up on how things are going; I changed groups 6M ago for a more fast-paced environment but have only partially gotten the transaction/networking exp I wanted - any advice?

French cuffs are for VP and up.

Where do we draw the line of being an alcoholic? (Asking for a friend)

That Friday feeling...

What movie title would you use to describe your current job?

We have a big project going on and I am the only point person(initiate it, did lot of work, and knows the deets well), seems like my mgr wants to get a headcount. But I want to use this opportunity to get promoted, how can I get this across? Mgr is new(they fired my old mgr), mgr’s mgr is new too(re-org). So not sure if I should/can make a case, or how.

First time posting on here… what do you like best about this app/what’s the best way to use this app to get its benefits? 🤔

Hey all. I had a recruiter reach out about a job posting I applied for through LinkedIn. One of the first questions she sent through email were my salary expectations. I don’t want to underbid myself without hearing about the salary range from her first. Is there a good way to respond to this questions w/o giving her a $ amount just yet?

Would someone please be able to provide a total comp range for quantitative portfolio analyst at a large wealth management firm? 1YOE.

Looking into preowned watches under <$10k resale value...patek, vacheron, or rollie?

At what age did you become 100% financially independent? I.e. not a single thing paid for by parents including things like staying under their insurance

I freaking love wearing khakis