I had this one night thing with a tourist from Brazil. I felt that he is my soulmate and I would marry this guy. He’s leaving the country tomorrow. I guess this is life haha.

Rank these attributes in a potential partner (and state your sex): Fitness/Looks, Wealth, Kindness, Intelligence. Go!

NYC 🐠 Anyone try the dating app MOTTO? Any good?

So many guys lurk in this bowl even if it is ‘desi ladies’. The minute I respond to any post related to dating, multiple guys try to slide into DMs acting innocent as if they are just ‘curious’ 🤷🏻‍♀️ 🤦🏻‍♀️

F Miami, 26 let’s talk 😉

Safe weekend getaways right now? Meeting a guy for the weekend, can’t stay indoors since my family is with me.

Any M up for a chat?

Any tips for hard launching partners on social media? For context, I’ve (Indian American female) been dating my white American boyfriend for 3 years and we just got engaged after two years of convincing my parents. They are very happy and excited now, but I’m scared shitless about being ostracized / judged by my extended family and Indian community in the US once I “let the cat out of the bag” on the engagement news. I want to be proud and confident about this but could use some moral support.

Single 🐟 joining business school in the fall... is dating within your class/cohort considered bad practice?

Cute second date ideas for this Saturday? Want to set up the expectation that yes I love to eat and drink but I also like to do things… any festivals, exhibits, street fairs, movies, etc. popping up?

Gorgeous night, 36/m, anyone want to meet for a drink?

Met a great woman this weekend. We are going on a date at the end of the month. Both have crazy schedules end of this month and next . I can’t stop thinking about her :) happy pride 🏳️‍🌈 ❤️

I saw my friends text messages (iPhone) and saw that she was texting a guy she shouldn’t be texting. She told me that the “Maybe” function on her iphone is glitching & the wrong name shows up. Cont.

Woman I went on one date with keeps me informed on what she's doing. I.e. Seeing her girlfriend or on her way to a birthday party. Not used to this level of transparency after just one date. We do have a second date planned. Thoughts?

Went on a short coffee date with a person who was nice, but I just don’t think we’re compatible. What’s a kind text I can send to explain, after they said we should see each other again?

Has anyone had any luck using ‘The League’ dating app? I’m a 29yo woman based in Houston.

Met a guy thru a mutual friends. Our first date was a day trip together. He couldnt come to a group event this week bc of work but I ended up to his house to hookup after (my idea). He hasnt texted me about meeting up this weekend...do you think i should text him? Getting feelings for him and worried i should back off before getting hurt.

F 🙋🏻‍♀️🌶 in Florida, exotic looking, early 50s (been approached by M in their early 40s) . We could chat and eventually meet up even if with a face mask 😷! 😁

What have your dating experiences been like as a single teacher? I feel often times people do not see my job as challenging or understand my passion

Male 🐠, if you and a girl had a “situationship” but obviously had feelings for each other and it had to end for one reason or another, how often do you still think about the girl? Would she be on your mind as you try to move on?

I’m trying to figure out what I’m worth. I’m a director / editor who works directly in-house at an agency. I’ve directed several (roughly one a month) broadcast spots in the last year for a national fast food client and I’ve also edited those spots among editing other random national spots in-between. The production budgets range from roughly 200k-500k per shoot depending on how many days it is. I get paid 75k yearly which is feeling pretty low when I do the math. Is that fair?

I've been biking to my home office everyday so I've been wearing gym clothes and bringing a change of clothes with me. When I get in the morning how long can I sit at my desk before going to change?

Do GRE essay scores matter as much?

Hi. I have just joined PwC India as a Sr. Analyst, from Campus. How many months/years of experience do I need before I can become an Associate?
Now I understand, it pretty much depends on my project and manager(s). Still, any good practices or suggestions to expedite the process?
Thanks a lot.

Currently C level (target promo next summer). Been mostly on finance transformation projects. Worked in strategic finance before that at a f500 healthcare company.
What roles/levels would I be a good candidate for at FAANG/Microsoft/other Big Tech?
No hard technical skills (outside of financial modeling).
I’m also studying for GMAT as t15 MBA is a consideration right now, so I could also try to make the switch after that.

Ex-consultant now in marketing. Used to be an avid follower here and got great insights on companies when trying to exit consulting so thought I’d try here for advice. Outside of FAANG, what are good large CA-based tech companies that provide good pay, WLB, and culture? DD has great people and WLB, but pay is low and you’re not given the tools and resources to succeed + truly make an impact. Google and Apple are ideal but need backups. Like is Salesforce still good? A company along those lines.

Hi Fishes!!!
How is Coforge(previously known as NIIT Technologies) is for the Scrum master role on the basis of :
1. Work life balance.
2. Work nature.
3. No. Of teams handled by one Scrum Master.
4. Being Agile forum.
5. No. of reports and meetings for the agile forums not just teams.
6. Layoffs.

Please help me by answering as many pointers as you can.

Location is Noida.

Thank you.

“Keep costs down”???? I am happy to keep costs down by not working on this ducking matter anymore. Maybe stop saying yes to matters that are too small to justify our rates and staffing an expensive senior person on them when you’re already dying trying to get anything staffed. You didn’t have to do shit on this matter, didn’t hear you complaining about my taking the lead and managing everything for you when that was happening. >.>

Hello fishes
Does anyone know how long it is taking for Netherlands to process HSM visa?

Where do people go after Visa?

anyone know what the largest client is at FCB? talking to a recruiter but they’re not giving up details yet. thanks!

eb1, 2,3 ,5 all seem backlogged .. May have limited knowledge of gc process..but does it mean unless there’s a major change in policies, there’s no real chance of GC for Indian born immigrants now?

Can’t decide between Hanoi or Ho Chi Minh city for 5 days in Vietnam. Also is it necessary to join a tour group? Thoughts?

Anybody knows or can suggest what all tasks are done on Workday after accepting offer letter from vmware ? Any timeline anyone can share . I accepted the offer 10 days back and still there is no other task in workday ? Any suggestions/comments are welcome and appreciated !!

What is the 1 client attraction strategy you’re doing today to grow your agency and it’s working for you? Help your brothers in arms out 🙌🏼

What is the average adoption assistance benefit at big law firms?

Is the lateral market still hot? Any of you interviewing/ lateralling soon?

Drop your classroom management ideas here. For my school it sure is nice to have a principal who supports a no phone policy.

Does anyone have salary information base for a UX Researcher at Meta?

Miami for Memorial Day long weekend, anyone? Or any recommendations for this weekend ?

Hi there!!

🥰🥰
I just want to say that I'm queer and married, in a Cis-hetero passing relationship 🤭

Do we have to talk about dating like all the time?

Can't we talk about other stuff? Like promoting THE AGENDA (jk)

No, but FR let's talk about being open and accepted in the workplace? How did you do that? How (un) friendly is the work environment?

Thankyaaaaaaaalll 😘😘😘

What is the reason why we still can’t donate blood? It’s 2022.

Who has watched It’s A Sin?

My brother-in-law (age 30) told us recently that he is transgender. How can we support him? (‘Him’ as we haven’t discussed pronouns yet). It was a surprise to us!

Do you find that what you find attractive physically has dramatically changed over the years? Everything from body type to facial features I swoon over is so totally different

NYC 🐠 Anyone try the dating app MOTTO? Any good?

Ryan Murphy is the new Aaron Spelling. Big rich producer making money off of cheesy shlock. I guess you can’t take the Indiana out of the boy. Heart’s in the right place though. Bless his heart.

My friend and I (both Asian and gay) were seating at the cafe on the 2nd floor of Saks Fifth Ave today waiting for our table for the restaurant on the 9th floor. A lady came and asked where are we from, and “why are you two men in this mall? This is for female only”. I said this mall sells products for all genders. She said she has walked all floors and never saw a thing for men. Then she threw curse at me. I stood up and asked her to repeat what she said. She pulled her phone and called 911

Carl Nassib 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Deloitte 🌈🐠 - raise your hand if you are going to DU this week!

Anyone Boston next week?

Met a great woman this weekend. We are going on a date at the end of the month. Both have crazy schedules end of this month and next . I can’t stop thinking about her :) happy pride 🏳️‍🌈 ❤️

What’s up my queer fam! I’m posting to you guys because I’m 27 I just moved to Miami from Philly and I came out today for the first time to one of my fraternity bro from penn state, who also happens to be gay, coming out a year or so after graduating. But anyway, it felt really good telling someone and also just finally admitting to myself to the first time that ya im a gay man. Idk it’s still weird to say but it feels good. But here’s my issue now. I feel like guys when they come out they’ll

Really struggling today. Consulting is so lonely. Random hookups are fun and plentiful but afterwards, I just get more lonely alone in my hotel room. How does everyone deal with constantly being alone

Let’s move out of NYC SF together lol . Maybe try LA ?

Matched with a guy on Tinder. Had a great first date. We are stilling chatting on WhatsApp. But he has disappeared from my tinder (presumably, he unmatched with me). Is it typical for ppl to unmatch on Tinder when they are still interested in you?

I want to buy my husband some underwear for Valentine’s Day. What brand do you guys like?

I’m so single I don’t know why. I’ve tried dating apps, played social sports, done hobbies that interest me, and even stopped looking. After all that, I still haven’t found someone #dyingalone

Poll on general attitudes towards open relationships? I’m in one and find that some folks are totally non-judgmental about it, while others are so vicious/rude about it. Curious about your opinions! I understand that every open relationship is different, and each couple defines their own arrangement/rules. For context, ours is a passive one that’s hardly acted on, but we both have Grindr and meet guys for fun on the very odd occasion (whether together or apart). If you’re in one, describe yours!