I met this girl at national office training. She is in another city/office. We email and ping about 1x a week since. Fair to say it's mutual crushing right?

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He doesn't have to make the move. Just saying if he was that enamored with me he would. He's an attractive, sociable, well rounded guy and I wouldn't want to begin a relationship with a guy that didn't like me enough to make the first move. I see gender equality more of like we make shared decisions and I pay for things as often as he does. I just prefer a relationships dynamic to be started under circumstances where I don't have to be the aggressor. If he just wants to talk to me every day and make jokes with each other and be friends that's cool too lol.

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When's the wedding?

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Grab her by the pussy and tell her how you feel

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Omg then I am practically married to the Global network

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She could just be friendly. 1x per week is not significant enough to say definitively she's crushing. Maybe she is just nice and likes you as a friend. Need some more info here. How were your interactions at training? Was there any indication she was into you then? How so? What types of stuff does she ping you about? Not saying she's not into you, but messaging 1x a week in itself is not a slam dunk indicator that she is.

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Because he's the man ^

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More often she pings me first. But I will ping her first as well. So it's a good mix.

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In my experience if a guy likes you he'll make a move. I'm ok with just being his friend if he isn't going to make one.

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Who pings who first? Very important.

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Also if mutual crushing what would the end game be? Suggest to her that you date long distance? Are you in cities close enough for weekend visits? Don't mean to put a bummer on this, but long distance relationships are extremely difficult and take a ton of work. Are you sure that's something the two of you would want?

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EY3 He probably thinks he's friend zoned cause you never make moves. Ask him out

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My personal experience and I've been around the town, guy into you- he will find a way to hang out and it ask you out

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One time a week??? Yeah sounds like obsession

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The only guy i ping regularly (that I ping first too) I'm definitely crushing on. We ping almost every day and alternate between who pings who first. He shows a genuine interest in my life and remembers things about it. But I think I'm friend zoned because he doesn't ever make any moves, so it happens both ways 😅

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Seriously though, if you want to make the leap just think of some type of event you both could attend that IS NOT work related. Break the work zone first, then all will fall into place

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@S1 Some people prefer not to make the first move, guys and gals. Chill out hombre

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Yeah definitely. I've had several guys from work ask for my number via ping. Sometimes it's like "oh i gotta head out for the day, give me your number so I can text you?" As long as you aren't awkward as hell she'll respond positively because obviously the feelings are already there

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Awww. I remember MY first 5th grade crush too

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Very nice. What is the chance you will see her again?

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