Why do guys don't ask girls on dates anymore? I know this guy likes me, he already told me friends so but hasn't acted or done anything in respect to us hanging out alone, such as get food

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I can see where a woman making a move would be bad. Anytime I feel like a girl makes a move on me, we end up in bed. It feels too easy.

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^ I've made the first move when I felt the girl was easy as well. Easy girls will be easy if you do or don't make the first move.

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Cause he's a 😺

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Waiting on Rolex. Dream man

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Why not just ask him? Something about equality, 2017, independent woman, or w/e.....

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News break: Most posts on fishbowl have no point

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OP finna pounce

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Im a guy. Do NOT make the first move. If he doesnt, he isnt worth your time. Also, he'll take advantage of you. We beasts.

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Lots of BS in this thread. If you like him, ask him out on a date. That way you can move on one way or another. A "normal" guy in today's society shouldn't care if you make the first move.

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"hey, do you want to have a casual lunch with me?" "id rather have a serious lunch, if thats okay" "i like serious lunches" "niceee"

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Hahah OP fixing to pounce.. further translated to 'OP is planning on making a move'

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^ Is this guy on the shy side ? If so, pretty much answers your question.

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^ maybe, but I'm more traditional in the sense of making the first move

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^ Get over it and make the move.

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^pwc2 not this again. That's not how it works with normal guys. Maybe accountants but not normal American boys

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^👏🏻

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Ask him for a casual lunch. Give him the playing field and see if he swings.

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^best advise so far but we don't work together. How would lunch work out?

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@EY1, Assumptions without concrete evidence are dangerous.

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^OMG. Not sure what you're deal is. If you like this guy ask him out. - what's the big deal right ? Seems like you're pretty open minded and closed minded at the same time.

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^I'm sure you got my point. Think of any other way of giving him the playing field. Maybe like invite him for a movie along with your mutual friend and make the mutual friend cancel last minute.

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