Helping mother in-law get back in the workforce. She hasn’t really held down a stable job while raising her kids. Any suggestions if types of jobs to go after?
So a friend of mine invited a teacher to “hang out” with their student/child outside contracted hours on a weekend. Call me crazy but I think that’s a lil out of line. Teachers have lives outside of your children.
Ladies, do you think getting passed over for promotion due to maternity leave is fair? Obviously makes sense not to be promoted if performance is lacking. However, if you killed it for ~30 weeks cont.
I lost my job and have a one year old. I love taking care of the baby and my whole day goes in that!! It really does. I have not been able to think about other job options but I really want to apply and find a job. What do I do? Due to corona we are skeptic bout day cares too. I do not want to lose my skill set, been in consulting for 12 yrs. And at the same time love the time that I spend with my baby. What is the right thing to do? I really need to get a fresh perspective and some inspiration.
Any advice on job searching while pregnant or shortly after delivering? How soon after delivering did you feel like your competent self?
“A child really isn’ that expensive in the first 3-4 years” ~ Spouse 7 months ago. Our bank account after 7 months of pregnancy says otherwise. I’m excited to be a father and I want to be a good father, but there is zero chance this child is going to remember or even care what decorations we chose for the nursery. Advice on picking battles over expenditures for a future child?
Deloitte 🐠 Can you please tell, what is the cost for the health insurance for employee + family and what are the different coverage options (e.g. 80/90/100 % plans) ?
Just so much happiness and I need space to gush. My boyfriend is the most amazing man I’ve ever met. He makes me feel safe and loved and is absolutely crazy about me. We see each other a couple of times a week and it’s always super fun and peaceful and the sex and emotional connection is perfect. I’m so lucky to have met him in nyc and he tells me he feels lucky too. We’re discussing our future and having 3 kids together and I can’t wait to call him my husband and father of our gorgeous children
My husband and I (both 27) max out our Roth IRAs each year, have a complete emergency fund, and I’m able to start maxing my 401K this year (he contributes 10% to his 401K - it isn’t possible for him to max his based on his current pay). We contribute 18% extra towards principal on our mortgage each month. We now have about $20k of additional savings we want to figure out what to do with. What would you recommend to someone who is new to stocks/investments?
Which firms have the best maternity/paternity packages? Do any cover some of the cost of surrogacy? I have a medical condition that would make actually carrying a child dangerous, so wondering if some firms offer help in that area (I’ve heard of some covering IVF costs).
Anyone else care more about getting into a top grad school (ivy- MIT-Stanford) more to please your grandparents and overseas relatives than the career benefits? I feel a weight has been lifted as the eldest sibling
Have a little over 5 YOE & several manager level roles with experience in change management, SaaS, technology implementations, Salesforce, healthcare. Making $135k now - what roles can I look for with this experience / a pay bump? Would love to move into health/life sciences tech (or any tech company) & looking into both FAANG-type roles and smaller startups. Any advice on specific companies / roles to look into?
Hopefully not too many can answer this... How much time did you take off after the passing of a child? ...Did you go back at 100% when you did go back?
A little embarrassing but F it! After 2 babies back to back please recommend some spandex-y or super control top panties to help with the fupa. My 2021 goal is to lose the baby weight (30 lbs) but I’m afraid the skin is so stretched out it will still be there. Tummy tuck/lipo is in the works—trust! And please don’t feed me any of those, you brought life into the world BS lines. Panty suggestions please (or solidarity to lmk I’m not alone standing in the mirror naked thinking WTF)!
What amount of a sign on bonus would make you leave an employer you love and make you miss out on end of year bonus? (Given the pay and benefits are veerrrrryy agreeable at the new company)
If your company uses contract or legal management software, please share what it is and how you like it. I just joined a company as its inaugural in-house counsel. Healthcare co with 1800 employees.
Anyone ever negotiated parental leave before? I have an offer on the table. Gave me what I asked for $ wise and PTO. But mat leave is not great. Not trying to have a baby now, but in the next 5 yrs.
What is the federal parental leave policy? I’m new to government and having a baby soon. I know we’re given 12 weeks and have to sign an agreement to work 12 weeks after we return but are there other stipulations to a claw back period or how long we had to be at the agency first?
Setting up our first small business 401k! Should we be an ERISA 3(38) advisor? What are the pros and cons?
Got hired in March (experienced hire). Because of my hiring date I was not part of this year's round tables. Should I expect a raise in base salary and a bonus, albeit on the very small side?
1 YOE B4 as SA. what are my options?
When does everyone think hiring freezes for consulting and non consulting companies will be lifted by? My guess is summer (after July 4) but curious to see what everyone here thinks
Got 2 offers, 1st from British American Tobacco- Planning Expert 10% pay rise and 2nd from small company(focus on data science) 50% pay rise, Data Science Project Goal: to break into MBB or FAANG
Expected signing/relocation bonus for experienced associate moving from Chicago to NY for a big 4?
Is anyone familiar with Uber strategy roles and salary expectations? Applied for a Sr Associate role and the salary is ridiculously below expectations and what I earn now.
Any advice for dealing with repeated job rejections (after several rounds of interviews)? I try not to take it personally but it’s really been a blow to my ego.
Exit options after 6 months in ZS? DAA here. WLB has landed me in hospital twice and my client seems to only care that in my absense, work gets delayed. Also, please recommend any skills one should/can learn on weekends to enhance selection.
Ladies! I am looking for comfortable heels now that we are going back to the office and client site. How do people feel about the block heel pumps? Do you think it's cute or a little old-fashioned? Thanks☺️
Are you supposed to expense Uber that you take out to a restaurant for dinner? I’m assuming not?
Going to be an experienced hire from a boutique, starting as Consultant in London. I gather that in terms of trying to drive greater choice of projects & greater promotion opportunities, you need to network internally. What does this mean? What’s the best way to do this (remotely & not) as an experienced hire?
Strategy& vs PWC perks: are there any differences? Specifically for things like expense amounts, ability to book biz class tickets, gym memberships, airport lounge access, cell phone stipends, etc.
And this hypocrite talks of economy. https://www.sundayguardianlive.com/news/rbi-spared-no-expense-hosting-raghuram-rajan#.XuZQg--vQLt.twitter
Got interviewed in top companies through third party recruiters and now waiting for final decision & offer from all 3. But my goal is to get full time role which is hard due to my OPT status. Advice?
How do you find your therapist? How do I know if my company insurance covers for them? Very new to this and also the system here in the US.
Anyone in Hell’s Kitchen? Just moved in and looking for coffee buddies to to have some breaks during WFH :)
A Facebook recruiter reached out to me a few days ago regarding an Application Security Engineering position and was wondering if anyone could shed some light on the interview process for AppSec position? Or ways to prepare ? TIA!
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