Anyone here ever had to explain to their family that they want kids, but they’re not interested in marriage? Women especially?

Moms with three kids and on a reduced schedule: What is your reduced schedule, and does it work for you? If not, what would be your ideal schedule? Just had my third and not sure how things will work... two was manageable, but three feels difficult right now

Girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me right before we were supposed to leave the state and move in together. We broke up about 4 months ago. I couldn’t demonize her, so I’m still struggling with processing it and idk what to do. I’ve been looking into therapy, but I can only do online which leaves me hesitant. Any advice would be appreciated.

Why is it that a lot of couples I know living in big cities are in open relationship?

I think my parents need therapy but being Indian parents they don’t believe in therapy. Has anyone had any success in convincing their parents to go? Is it too late because of their age?

My wife reads nearly an entire book per day just in her spare time after work, no exaggeration. I’m amazed by her and wondering what ideas are out there to monetize her skill? Book editing maybe?

Desi folks! Why do you let your parents manage your profile on the websites? It’s so uncomfortable when you get a call at 4 am saying “beta, we like your profile.” 🤷🏽‍♂️

I just had to send my husband away in an ambulance. I’m not allowed to go with him or even go to the hospital. I don’t know what to do. I can’t even be there for my husband.

I ve been in Houston for like 8 months now. I am introverted, and I live by myself. I literally have no friends here outside of the folks I talk to at work.
I need help.

I hate going home for Thanksgiving because I always feel like I haven't succeeded enough yet and my family has seen me fail a lot

Girlfriend has very obvious high functioning anxiety and body image issues that she admits but thinks she doesn’t need therapy or medication and that reading self-help books will help her. It’s not changing in the last several years and it’s impacting our relationship. Anyone have experience with their SO dealing with untreated anxiety? I know I can’t control her but would like to express my feelings without sending her into a spiral. For context, I’ve been in therapy for 12 months and medicated

What are some of the nice things that your SO do for you?

Just found out my boyfriend of 3 months (talking stage was about 6 months before making it official) slept with his ex a couple times while we were talking. After we agreed to be exclusive. Without protection. I’m so crushed 😞

What are personal goals I should set for myself as a fresh grad out of college? I live in an apartment, have healthy eating/exercise habits, and close family but not many close friends and often feel lonely

For those that are the children of immigrants or are an immigrant themselves-what’s the greatest lesson that you’ve learned from your upbringing/family that you now apply to your career & life?

Important question! Any strategies for getting out of work zoom happy hours? Other than ignoring requests and not showing up, which has been my MO so far. But it’s getting a bit awkward.

Ghosted once more after what I thought was a great first date. Guess I’ll give up on love forever.

I just had a student come to me to explain she just came out to her mother and her mother took it horribly. She is talking about sending her away to boarding school. How should I go about addressing.

I think living a frugal life and aiming to retire early makes a lot of sense.

Recently, some of my family members are diagnosed with a rare diseases. When you look at the statistics, these are so many of these ‘rare’ conditions and cumulatively they are not rare.

These family members conditions made me reevaluate how I want to spend my life. I am 35 this year and I can’t decide if I should take great vacations with my kids or keep living a frugal life. Do you have the same dilemma?

I've got some friends who work remote jobs, and every day I grow more jealous of them during my one-hour commute.

Half the reason I work out is to make my ex jealous

Anyone commuting from Midtown Toronto to Mississauga for work and willing to carpool??

If anyone is interested in forming a case chain or is already in one for McKinsey interviews, drop a comment

I find myself struggling the explain things with the same eloquence as my colleagues. How can I improve my consulting speak? Any recommended books?

How does one get into trading from positions elsewhere in the bank? What would impress you most about candidates attempting to do so?

Does hsbc have Christmas shutdown like most firms? Or is everyone working through the holiday season

I'm a cashier. We just got a new manager, and she's making things really hard for us. She starts work at 4:30am and leaves around 2:30pm, but she still expects us to stay until 6pm and work on the weekends! She gives us really long shifts and doesn't give us much time for breaks. And when we ask her about it, she gets mad.

I'm worried that if I speak up, she'll make my life even harder. I don't want to lose my job because of this—do you guys have any advice?

Why are you so many people leaving Deloitte and coming to Accenture? What makes it better as Accenture people are leaving to go to Deloitte? Wondering on both sides why and what is leading to the change?

has anyone dealt with an unfair PIP at work before and survived?

31/M/NYC/260k Freelance creative

Ghosted once more after what I thought was a great first date. Guess I’ll give up on love forever.

Anybody have workout shirt recs that are longer? I’m tired of shirts fitting at the shoulders and being too short … 6’1” 200lb

Anyone know the base salary for VP position at Visa North America?

Sorry if this has been asked a few times but - relocating to Charlotte and looking for apartments, preferably in southend. Any solid recommendations or places to avoid?

Looking for a 1 BR - 2.4K a month or less.

TYSM!!

What is band of Associate Director in Mindtree?

For those based in Nigeria, how can we (non-Naija based) support the movement to end SARS?

First things first: I love [us]. The country might be a shadow of itself, but we [diasporans & indigenes] are its pride. Drop your tribe, village, local government area, & state as an introduction.

Any Nigerian consultants based in Nigeria?

Happy Independence Day my people! How are you all celebrating today?

This group quiet o

Na wa

Why is this joint so quiet? Hello peeps!!!

Anyone here that works at google or FB that's willing to help out and refer another Nigerian?

Does anyone know any decent Nija restaurants in the DMV? I already know the main ones and they are not really great. Im looking for something comparable to Ike’s in ATL.

Can we resurrect this page? Can you just take one second to post some video to make us laugh? abeg

How’s everyone spending their quarantine period?

Trying to pay it forward 🐠: brilliant rising Senior at my undergraduate alma mater [Washington & Lee] wants to take a detour through consulting before Medical School. I’ve given the real...[Cont.]

Getting sick of The US but haven’t been back home for 20 years. Where are the best places in Lagos to live if you had means and wanted to settle back? Im hearing about Banana Island, but not familiar.
VI?
Ikoyi?
Thoughts?

Mid-30s M looking for a cute Nigerian lady to chat with.