I started dating this guy some months before covid struck.. he was literally crazy about me. He even stayed in Hyderabad for months just so that we could meet once before he went on to stay with his family. After that it had been a real roller coaster. He pampered me a lot before and now he hardly talks. We both have switched to different companies (earlier were in the same) and now he works 6 days a week. Sleeps or Vists his relatives or works on Sundays. Sometimes I feel he no longer loves me.

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@EY1 - we are in a committed relationship and I know his feelings are real. Had conversation multiple times. We have a pattern- he gets busy, I get upset, we fight, I block him, he says sorry after a day puts in effort and then it's normal until he gets busy and the cycle follows. He is just too lazy.

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Then I feel nothing to worry about!!

Lol. People give relationship advise as well in these forums. 🤩

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So you don't hear back from him at all now?

If I'm lucky then 30 mins a day..

Maybe , if you are up for it then you can put on a little effort. He might have expectations. Surprise him !!! 😊

Have an open conversation and get clarity regarding where the relationship is heading...see if both of you are on same page

@accenture1- what kind of suprise?

P.S. can't send him any gifts.. he isn't okay with parcels being delivered to his place.

Either he is really busy with his new office or may be he has someone else in life.

The best way to figure out is communication. Have word with him whenever u talk next time ask him directly what he really want.

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