I was laid off once before, and not a single coworker reached out. Not even the ones I considered my close friends. My manager did not reach out either. Is this normal behavior? Curious what your experience has been with this type of situation

like
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

Did you try to reach out to them? I got laid off from a job where I led the team, and not one person messaged me until I message them. People get awkward and avoid discomfort, so I would say it's pretty normal, but it doesn’t make it okay. I believe you can try reaching the ones who were you friends, just as a simple conversation to see how they are doing.

like

thank you

I think it unfortunately is. Don't look into it too much/don't dwell on it, because at the end of the day, your focus needs to be on what's next. If the roles had been reversed, I quite frankly don't think I would know what to say either. Business is business and this sadly happens more than you know.

i will try not to take it personally :)

I had the same experience three years ago. I thought I was close with my old coworkers, so the complete silence hurt me more than I'd like to admit. The further I've moved away from it, though, the less I'm inclined to think it was personal. I think most people just don't know how to approach a fired coworker and choose not to to avoid potentially hurting them further.

I'm sorry it hurt! I get it

That can happen and it's probably not uncommon. A lot of times people get wrapped up in their own situation and they tend to turn their backs on someone who has a problem. It's almost like they act like your bad fortune would be contagious or something.

I mean that's pretty normal. Sometimes it happens suddenly and people don't know how to act or even contact you.

thank you!

Related Posts

EY fish - when you are laid off, is it immediate the day you're told or do you get a little warning?

like

We have a big project going on and I am the only point person(initiate it, did lot of work, and knows the deets well), seems like my mgr wants to get a headcount. But I want to use this opportunity to get promoted, how can I get this across? Mgr is new(they fired my old mgr), mgr’s mgr is new too(re-org). So not sure if I should/can make a case, or how.

like

Hi all,

I have one question -coming 2023 year maybe recession hit worldwide economy. Can we worried as a accenture employee? Any news for mass layoff for recession?

like

Assuming this causes a recession like in 2008, and many people get laid off, how long to take to find another similar paying job? I’m currently a strat manager in FS. Scared for job.

likefunny

Is it safe to join CISCO? I have heard the layoffs happens there yearly.

like

Does your firm find out why you failed a clearance ? Asking bc I got fired from my first job out of college a couple years ago and didn’t report it on it company background check. I’m afraid if I fail my public trust, my current firm will find out and fire me for not reporting it on my prior employers.

like

I was informed today that my employment would be terminated at a tier-2 consulting firm in Toronto. The reasons for my dismissal are unclear and I would like to get legal advice on the termination agreement and severance package that was offered. Has anyone experienced a similar situation and can refer a good employment lawyer?

like

We’re in such a vicious business. You give your heart & soul to an agency, a client, a brand. Then the wind changes & you’re laid off, reassigned, chewed up, spit out, on to the next. I’m tired.

like

So someone I know asked HR about a boot policy. When he found out that there wasn’t one, but his boss said there was (who gave the guys $ for boots and the claimed it on his expense reimbursements as something else) the boss got mad at him for askingHR (and in trouble for the expense reimbursements) and then 2 days later laid off my friend. There appears to be no notice of bad performance and this person always was the first person on the job site ready to work. Thoughts?

like

Thinking about starting an OF... since we aren’t getting raises this year. In all seriousness, I like being watched. But I’m too afraid to be found and get fired. My husband has a job now so maybe I can finally live my dream. Thoughts?

like

The severance package at Meta for laid off employees almost makes it nice to be laid off depending on what your personal situation is….. personally wouldn’t mind getting 4+ months of full pay to reset and think about what’s next 😬

like

I got an email from a Cybersecurity Advisory Partner with the subject "Catch-up". Last week we all rolled-off from project abruptly b/c the client terminated the contract. Am I getting laid off?

like
like

Hows the industry doing in MENA right now? Any worries about a potential crash? Are firms still hiring? Based in the US and everything is tense here with the recent tech layoffs

like

Any insights on bonus and hike? What should be the expectation considering recession and layoffs?

like

Recently laid off and looking for recruiters that specialize in media/strategy/advertising (both agency and client side). Sure there are others looking as well - would greatly appreciate any info.

like

What’s the best way to negotiate more money during a contract to FTE conversion? My manager and I had the conversion convo today and he said he’d like to convert me immediately and took the action item to do so. In terms of comp he said they should already have what I’m expecting but I don’t think I communicated any FTE number to my contracting company. In this job market with all the layoffs, should I count my blessings and take what I can get or is there wiggle room.
YOE: 10

More Posts

Is there an in-house Amazon creative department in Chicago or NYC? Which office makes the good brand commercials or are they made by agencies? Can’t find Amazon creative recruiters on LinkedIn.

I am looking to product management from program management, any recommendations on books to read, courses etc

like

Anyway to slim down legs; just want to smooth out this massive imbalance that the body seems to favor to the downside

like

Hi Friends,

I am looking for manager position in Stat Audit department with any big4 offshore practice. Location should be Delhi NCR.

Please let me know if you come across any such vacancy.

Thanks

like

I am currently a biomedical engineer at @U.S. Food and Drug Administration with over two years of experience. I would like to hear everyone's experience navigating the GS increase (salary raise) as a government employee. Here are some questions for discussion. How long did it take you to be promoted to the next pay grade? What do you think contributed the most to that salary increase? If you transitioned into the private sector, what drove you to make this decision? Thanks!

like

Tips on looking for a remote position in the communications, Public relations, or marketing field? Everything I find seems to be a scam, way underpaid, or a 100% commission based role.

like

Hello , i want some guidlines ,accenture vs deloitte ,which one to choose??

like

What is the notice period during probation in HCL.
Please anyone tell me.

Thanks.

like

ACCA and CPA qualifications. How useful are they in the line of consulting. I work in the M&A space focusing on FDD. Happy to have a chat to see what qualifications if any are actually useful in our line of work.

like

Hi all!
My mother in law got scammed by a con artist from the UK online and lost $7K (damn you Facebook!)

Her status in the US is currently complicated and she doesn’t have a green card(tho she’s working on it), my wife(her daughter) is American.

I want to report this to the FBI’s elder fraud department but I don’t want to complicate her situation even more.

Does anyone know if criminal stuff like this and immigration related things are separated?

like

Hi Guys let me know if there are any openings in service now or Deloitte or Verizon at Hyderabad location for QA - Functional / Automation / API testing/ Docker Container

I have 7 years 8 months of experience

like

Hi All,
I Need Referral
Total experience - 3.5 years
Skills - Java, spring boot, spring cloud, microservice

like

In final stage interview for Product Manager position at Early Stage VC startup. The company convo is coming up soon and I am looking at asking 140K base, 20K sign on, and 40K equity. Is this reasonable am I selling myself short (or too high), I’m coming from consulting.

like

Investment bank vs it company?
Data management/consultant role

like

Hey guys,

Can someone
Accenture refer me to JOB NO. 57763?

Thankyou,

Accenture
Accenture India

like

Do y’all admit that you spaced out when called out of blue in a call?

likefunny

Why does the referrers’ level not matter at McKinsey? Should getting a manager’s referral matter to me or should I go for my friend who has 1 YOE as a BA? I heard that only partner level can actually help you get an interview everything else is almost useless.

like

Any NY CPAs in here? Trying to see how long it took everyone to get their applications reviewed. I sent app on 12/16 and employment verification was sent 12/18

If you're a vegan, do crossfit, and own bitcoin... which one of these things do you mention first when you introduce yourself to someone?

like

JPMorgan Chase is sending me mails regarding payroll status update. I just got offer some days back. I have many days left to serve notice. Should I update these details even before joining?
Will anything happen if I don't do it now ?JPMorgan Chase

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal