If I had a dime for every time I said something, only to receive blank stares, then had a male coworker “magically” repeat it soon after and have everyone be onboard. Like, am I a 👻?? 🤷🏽‍♀️

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The next time this happens, will probably shoot back with “I literally just said that” and make everyone uncomfortable. 😇

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I did this in a car a few weeks ago and the driver laughed out loud. As did I, internally, for the three hour ride back to get city with a bunch of uncomfortable old dudes. It was glorious.

It happened to me last week. I answered a question and the (female) person who asked the question said, “no I don’t think you understand,” and rephrased the question, and I answered it again. She then rephrased it again, and a male colleague answered her, saying the exact same thing I said twice before, and she finally accepted his answer. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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I feel this on a spiritual level

It cuts both ways, I have a female colleague who basically steals my work, calls it her own

That’s a different issue - and I’ve had male colleagues do the same to me. The issue is that sexism is pervasive in this industry, but your problem with one female colleague is not a widespread challenge.

Every. F-I got. Time.

Men bad, Women good? People of both genders do the same thing.

There are more than two genders. But yes, I agree. Being an asshole is not specific to men.

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