I’m burnt out from video chatting all day long for work. The last thing I want to do is zoom Seder two nights in a row with my partners family. How can I maintain my sanity without seeming rude?

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Take those 4 glasses of wine very seriously

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And do what I do which is glaze over and just agree with all the griping/family nonsense

Claim that your practice is now Orthodox and you disagree with the decision permitting the use of electronics on yuntif.

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Haha I was going to say the same. Good Yuntiff! Shut all devices off from now til Saturday night. Enjoy your family/partner and your wine. This mess will still be here when you get back.

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I’m taking this opportunity to completely shut off from work and media. Hopefully I can maintain it, but it should be good for my stress levels.

You should’ve said you have your own family’s zoom Seder....

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OP, your partner’s parents are so Jewish it hurts. Good luck lol

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woah hold up. You work at a place called Edelman and weren’t born Jewish?

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To clarify, I’m not Jewish and completely agnostic. In person religious activities also rub me the wrong way but I do them to be supportive. But I’m barely hanging on wfh with my mental health, so this is putting me over the edge. They don’t respect personal boundaries so how do I communicate this?

Just remember: it’s a mitzvah

Feeling like I’ve done my share of mitzvahs these last five years...

I have no idea what Seder is. But can’t you just....say no?

Yeah this is my issue. The moment I’ve tried to decline these religious events I’m basically guilted.

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Tell them to do it like Interstellar, record the video chat to watch it years later like McConaughey did.

Is she also on video calls all day?

Good advice, thank you!

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