Is taking tuition class for kids after office hours considered moonlighting?

My bf has asked me to help him quit the ecigs and told me he’ll probably hide them from me but he wants me to take them. So I have for the past week. He really only keeps them in his pocket, 1 drawer

Been seeing a guy for a few months now and I can’t stop myself from getting in my head. I’ve never been in a solid relationship before like this and I’m afraid I’m going to mess it up. We’re together most nights and some nights I need a night off or some space, but when I don’t hear from him I get paranoid that I did something.
I don’t know how to just let things be and feel we’re as good as I know we are.

Do any parents have a Lovevery discount code? Also, are there other similar services I should look it? Our LO is due in 3 weeks. So, I want to get him off to a good start.

Real talk ... if someone is over 35 and hasn’t been married before, do you automatically assume there is something wrong with them?

Is Indy a good place to raise a family? Looking to hear from people who actually live here lol

Getting over heartbreak and having a full time job is torture lol. My boyfriend and I just broke up after almost a year of being together. It was such a beautiful relationship but ultimately he just didn’t love me. I love him so much. My mind knows that I deserve reciprocal love and I’m worthy, but I feel physically ill. My body hurts, my stomach is in knots, my head hurts. How is it that I have to mend a broken heart but also meet my billable hours lmao

During family prayer - my mom takes nearly 40 minutes every single time (this is 2x a day, morning and night). She speaks a different language and I barely understand. How can I lovingly tell her to take less time?

Anyone else stuck here without family? I'm in SF and my roommates are going home to their families tonight and i'm going to be alone, it's going to be a long 3 weeks..... 😭😭😭

How do you communicate with your parents? How often?

I am generally uncomfortable when I’m around my mother-in-law’s husband.

While he is overall a decent guy, his anger issues, yelling at his wife for the slightest issue, and insulting nature makes me uncomfortable and triggers my own anger due to his blatant disrespect for just about everyone around him.

My mother-in-law says he’s worked on things, but it’s been 10 years of this and I’m not sure I want such behavior around my wife and our kids since we’re trying to conceive soon (cont).

Opinions on career clerkships? Especially with a two year old and wanting another child eventually.

AITA: My friend keeps asking me for financial advice. I set up a budget for her and have her concrete advice. And I field all of her investing questions. But still, she continues to be reckless with her money. She’s 42, single (no kids), and making $100k+ and is still living check to check.

I don’t want to waste my breathe on helping her since nothing seems to be getting through to her. AITA?

Any recommendations for books for desi parents ? Politics , economics, world order , self help

We get it, ghosting happens. But has it ever happened to you repeatedly by the same person? Cashmere Agency in LA calls me relentlessly and then ghosts me just as relentlessly. Sales Force has done it two or three times as well. I can’t help but laugh and think about how it feels like getting a text from an ex—this didn’t work out before remember? It’s only been a month I’m still me.

How to be an exceptional buddy to my intern?

How have you combated your fear of rejection? I fixate on such small things as when my friends, for example, reject plans I have made. This definitely makes me more averse to putting myself out there and makes me ruminate on past perceived failures, which are clearly not good for personal growth

People who have cheated in their previous relationships, how did you come to realize the reason behind your behavior? A close friend confided in me that she has cheated in all her previous relationships and struggles to understand the reasoning behind it. She feels a lot of shame and is trying to understand why she does what she does.I have suggested therapy but she is not ready yet. How did you folks arrive at the root cause behind your behavior? Advice? Book suggestions that I can pass along?

What are some of the nice things that your SO do for you?

In one month is my mid term review.. Should I let my mentor know I'm applying for mba this year now or should I wait till after the review session? I'm afraid mentioning going to b school would hurt my "fast promotion". What's your guy's experience? :)

Any real estate experts in the house? Thinking of making a move to Miami from Jacksonville. Jacksonville real estate is still pretty inflated and hasn’t really come down much. Is real estate in Miami following the same pattern? Or is it expected to deflate with high interest rates?

I made it through the first 2 interviews and I think it went well. How long does it usually take to find out if you move on to the final interview round?

First PI case. Just got defendant’s discovery back. I asked for all policies to see any potential coverage and was just sent back the 2-page dec page. Is that normal? What is my response/objection to this?

So I just started a new job in sales (B2B specifically). All my life I’ve been in blue collar jobs, military, then construction work ect. I don’t have much money saved to get myself my own business cards as I’m sure they are important to have, I’ve got all the info that I need to go out and start selling. I guess what I’m looking for is just tips on how you guys were successful walking into a whole new arena if that makes sense?

I’m interested in pursuing Health Informatics…….. are there jobs in this area with a background in OT or is this primarily for RNs?

Do people know if the big 4 are all wfh and onboarding that way as well? Or have they started setting return to office dates?

Currently interviewing for a role at Amazon that is listed as a CW position, but I have direct experience in the product and capabilities this role is seeking, and the hiring manager is moving me forward. What is the likelihood that if I tried to negotiate from a CW to FTE, I would get the position?

I got the offer from CGI recently. Having 11 years of experience but seems I asked very less. I am getting 24 fixed + 5% variable + 1.5 joining bonus. Can I re negotiate with them?

Hi all! Can anyone share recordings of successful McK PEI stories?

Okta's CMO thinks it will be bigger than Salesforce eventually. Sell me on that please.

What is the best route to take to become an analyst? I have an RN, MBA in Healthcare Management, CPHQ, and 15 years of CQI experience.

New to Toronto, moved to the west end of town/ just past - in Etobicoke. I celebrate my 40th a few days after NYE/NYD - would love some recommendations on moderately priced but nice ambiance restaurants for myself + husband, and my extended family. Everyone is scattered throughout (Hamilton, Barrie, Lyle, Newmarket, North York). Don’t want anything too fancy but don’t really know where or what is good and not downtown.


Any recommendations? (Open to GTA of course).

Any recommendation for a public place to watch the US F1 Grand Prix together with other folks who couldn’t get a COTA ticket?

Has anyone seen the Tinder Swindler?!

What is the average % bonus of base in big AM firms? Have an offer and debating between that and another finance route that I know pays a large bonus if performing well

Greetings Fishes,

A query which I long had and also today's budget session gave me the kick to ask this question.

I would like to know WHAT IS AN IDEAL SALARY STRUCTURE?
Which components should I focus more on?
What structure is best/ideal for minimal taxation?

Hi fishes,

I am working as analyst in kgs consulting team with total 5 years of exp. I have got an offer letter from accenture with 10lpa + variable. The role is of senior analyst in technology side.
My current compensation is 6.5 and manager ia saying that they will promote and increse my salary.
What should i do? Please suggest.

I am 8 yoe. My current CTC - 8 lpa. I have got offer with 21 lpa. Since my current CTC is low as per market standards company which provides offer are saying i am expecting more offer with less current CTC. Any suggestion how to get more CTC as per market

I have 12 years exp, Skill Java Full stack. Citi Bank AVP role or Allstate Architect role would be good. I want to settle down. CTC is almost same in both

Which is better hexaware TCS or Capgemini

How much CTC can i ask in NTT data for 6.5 year experience and current CTC is 9 lpa
Tech stack is .net angular sql full stack developer
Please suggest urgently

Hi Fishes,
Please suggest a job for my wife. Immediate joiner. Experience: 8.5 years in Android/Kotlin.

Hello Fishes,

I'm from Calcutta...2 yoe...

Due to the medical constraints of my dad, I can't think of moving out of Kolkata....

Presently, I am paid decently in TCS...got offers from KPMG and LTI...but then couldn't accept them and stopped my job search ...

But if at some point when I would feel saturated with the work at TCS...

Can u guys help me by naming good companies in Kolkata...that I could consider as an option in future...?

Thank you🥺🙏🏾

Hi fishes,

Where can someone switch after working for 2.5 years in EY - Business Consulting (IT Audit). People usually suggest switching to other Big4s in early stage of career. However, just wanted to get a few suggestions.

Thank you all the fishes and crabs on the occasion of thanks giving day

As a couple how much is your total salary and who spends more ?

Ours is 50 lpa

Hello fishes,
Can someone suggest/guide to buy term insurance plan under age 30.

Should I buy pure term insurance plan or it is fine to buy a plan which gives return after certain age.

I had an interview with TCS yesterday and today got an email from them to submit the documents. Does this mean I cleared the interview? If yes, what is next step?

Is anyone working on EPAM Anywhere? I'm considering it. Would like to know the work culture and benefits

STOP✋. BREATHE 👃. RELAX 🧘🧘🧘.

My company aligns fresher as replacement when any employee quits, doesn't matter it's 2yr exp or 20exp, replacement is fresher. Simple life. Cheap life.

Got Presurvey email post interviews @ Deloitte USI for Consultant role.
What is the ETA for the next step ?

Hi guys,
Last week for an exhaustive interview month.
Please help me decide the offer to select.

1. HCL - 16.5 + 1LPA joining bonus
2. Globant 22.8 fixed.
3. Xoriant 20 fixed + 50K joining bonus.
4. Concentrix 25fixed

WLB wise. Please help me decide.
I don't wish to stretch till last day.
Anxiety on top level right now 😬

YOE - 4.5 yrs
Skills - React.js + nodeJS + AWS