Is the drinks guy here yet? I am ready

How do I politely decline that I’m not okay to make out in the first date or when the guy calls me over to his place after we meet/eat/drink? I want to take things slowly & know the person before getting physical. Not everyone might like this but that’s what I am & this whole thing appears off-putting.

I’m 35 and have been single for the last 7 years. I’m a heterosexual woman. How weird will men perceive me, When getting back in the dating pool? And yes that means no sex! 🙃👀🤷🏽‍♀️ I was working on myself and healing

For those of you in your mid-20’s, how often do you go on dates with your significant other? In a serious relationship for the first time since college and trying to gauge what folks consider normal for dating frequency (excluding nights in). Context - we’re 25, dating for 3 months, live 5 mins away from each other, decent WLB

Any F in the Bay Area wana have some exciting time?

Has anyone been to the Zoolights at the Zoo? I have never been, I'm relatively new to the area. Is this a good event for a casual walk around date night?

Anyone else’s love life so DRY that you find yourself having a crush on an older man at work who is in senior leadership? I keep it professional, but I feel like I’m doing something so bad by having this crush.

29M single looking to meet some new people and grab some drinks !

I matched with someone in Bumble but am actually interested in one of the guys from one of the group pictures he had. How rude will it be if I ask him? I know it’s rude but J lol - please don’t fry me

Anyone ever end things w a dude you only went on one date with bc he wouldn’t stop hitting you up after and have the guy ignore you in public and unfollow you after? I don’t see what the big deal is. I was super nice about it. I get everyone hates rejection but he was doing a lot.

Any F fishes want to hang out at the dock and go boating over the weekend?

Can a relationship survive with two tops/bottoms? I met a guy I really liked but we are… on the same side

How to handle your own procrastination? Any tips/advice?

Turning networking on in this bowl indicates you are single and open to DMs

Any frenchies around in NYC? Where do you guys usually meet?

off-topic:
in office have you seen any girl wear nosepin?

Anyone from Los Angeles here? And any luck with dating in the LA area?

Looking for a drinking buddy next week in Detroit. F. Mid 20s. No hookup.

M here.

Anyone for catch up and explore good places evening or tomorrow?

Hi all,

There is guy living near my place and i find him really attractive. And sometimes I come across him in the gym. But I'm not sure if he likes me or not. How to handle this situation?
Any suggestions?

Hi Fishes, I have 8 years of experience in testing. I am looking for jobs abroad. Any inputs on where I need to start like that .....

How is it to work in Standard Chartered Bank Bangalore as a C++ Senior developer with 11 years exp.
Can pls suggest work environment and culture in SCB ?
And what can the salary to ask in SCB .
Currently hold 2 offers the highest one is 25L fixed

Thanks in Advance

I have my annual review coming up and want to hear thoughts on what a reasonable raise expectation is. I report to the COO and currently make $94k + up to 10% annual bonus based on company hitting their revenue goal + I have 3000 stock options. I have 3 YOE in customer success but pivoted to a non technical program manager role at a series c tech startup last September. I have been getting consistently positive feedback at quarterly reviews. What raise should I aim for?

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Any MDs willing to talk to a MD with significant clinical experience who is interested in consulting?

Looking for a referral as Associate - Operational Support in Bain and Co , Delhi

I have a counter offer with more package than the Microsoft. Do they have a policy of blacklist the candidate if I change my mind after accepting the offer?

Anyone familiar with Ambassadors at BCG? I’m curious if you can switch offices after returning post MBA

What movie title would you use to describe your current job?

Has anyone been given an offer or received further movement on their application after a month or more from your last interview? Not sure if it’s odd that the company reached out after my final round interview to have a call and “discuss next steps” but then they haven’t responded to me since I’ve followed up (I’ve poked 3 times every 11 days or so but I plan to leave it be now until they respond).

Is anyone else finding ubereats, DoorDash, etc to be less reliable in recent months? I’ve had several deliveries go missing or arrive hours later than expected.

I’m so grumpy about new campus hires. Sometimes I’m judgmental (your hobby is “working on your golf swing,” really?). Sometimes I’m just exhausted by the worried earnestness. Sometimes I’m amazed that they seem to have zero useful skills, yet they’ll be making 150k easily in the not too distant future.

Accenture calling back to office from Jan. what to do I dnt want to go back. Can we not get permanent WFH. I will have to start looking for another job if I am asked to join office.

Anyone works in the new-ish Google buildings in NYC - 315 / 345 Hudson street? How are they? Do they have typical Google amenities eg good food, gym, etc? Any other good/unusual facilities? TYIA!

Looking for case partners for McKinsey R1. Beginner with some experience. Let me know!

Does consultant specialist come under AVP role in hsbc technology?

Hi Fishes,

I have been selected at citi bank.

Yoe - 5.7 years,
Cctc - 17.85 lakh fixed
What should be expected ctc for c11 position?? And what is c11 position??

How's everyone doing this weekend?

new to the bowl, just saying hi!

Any ladies up for a drink this weekend?. Have the next 5 days off from work. 33 M

Any Female fish want to grab brunch and watch the Masters this weekend

What’s everyone a/s in this bowl?

Hey Fishes, looking for safe quiet places for a single person which are quiet but within ~45 min to times square area?

33M returning to NYC on Saturday. Anyone up for a Sunday brunch, cocktails, or a Central Park workout?

Do women like to be bought items out of appreciation ?

Any ladies want to go to happy hour tomorrow? 💁‍♀️ here

Who does like a strong espresso?

How about everyone plan a get together on a weekend in a bar know each other and build this community?

Looking for a running buddy in the city. DM me for deetz!

So many people live in NYC but still it feels like the loneliness place on the planet. Does anybody have positive stories from dating apps? How do you guys meet ppl in general?

Single 25 F. Any single males 25-30 yrs on here?

Who's free tn and wants to mingle? 26/m

Welcome, friends! I created this community to meet others in the city during these strange times.

This will primarily serve as a safe space to meet friends. If your vibe is more on the dating end, that's fine too.

Let's be kind, inclusive, and respectful. I've already met some of you in person, looking forward to meet more folks here!

Any 40+ women here interested to make new friends? 40+ man here.

Any NY F fish want to grab a drink this evening? 31M here.

29 M. Any F to join me for Halloween themed bars for a drink?

Anyone up for watching the Euro 2020 finals this Sunday? M30