It’s funny and interesting that most of my coworkers think they are the “smartest” people alive. Do you all work with similar people like that? I’m not shocked. You have to be somewhat confident and cocky to be in IB. But overconfident can be annoying as hell.

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I see this all the time. I think a part of this behaviour is rooted in trying to counteract insecurity and impostor syndrome.

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Fact. The impostor syndrome is strong where I work.

I agree that IB attracts highly competitive people, which is part of it. I also agree that there is a heavy degree of coping given the all-consuming lifestyle that comes with being a part of this industry. If this is all your life is and ever will be, there is probably a tendency to double down on how smart and special you are for being here

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I understand that it’s part of our “culture” and maybe you got to play your part if you want to survive in this business.

I’ve worked with a fair share of IB Bankers. It really depends on the firm, some are absolutely insufferable and a joke to work with. Ironically the more education they have the more they try to prove themselves ie MBA/JD people. It’s kind of embarrassing on the client side to see this behavior.

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