Is it okay to join a new team and say "I expect your Support to myself" when you know you're not joining as a lead to the team.??

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First it's grammatically incorrect :P
Next use the word 'help' instead of support, it will be taken in a better way by the new team members.
"I hope you help me to get settled in my new role"

Hahaa okay, and yes indeed. The person who joined, said "I expect your support and cooperation". I didn't like it.

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