It’s my bf’s birthday tomorrow, but we can’t spend the day together. I want to send him something to his apartment, but it’s in a gated community and requires a door code. Do you think he’ll mind that I’m giving the door code to the person making the delivery?

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I would think it’s very nice gesture and I wouldn’t mind but I don’t know the rules of his community. Could you do Amazon ? They probably have the code already as such a large company

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Do you think you can time it such that the delivery person arrives while he’s home and can meet them at the door?

I’ve done that when sending care packages to friends.

I’d be mad if my significant other gave my code to anyone, let alone a stranger. I imagine his neighbors would not be very happy either.

Men do not gush over birthdays like women. I’d wager that he’d be totally ok with a simple “Happy birthday, I love you, sorry I can’t be there now!” instead of freaking him out with a surprise.

Watch Ron Swanson’s birthday on YouTube to see what I mean about what men want on their birthday:

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=apg09bolUIc

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