It's wild to me what people think my priorities are at less than a month postpartum. For further context, I moved while 8 months pregnant (so I still have lots of unpacked boxes), I have a 2yo toddler, and obviously a newborn baby.

My MIL has fixated on my curtains being wrinkled. I slapped them up as-is just to get something over the windows. After mentioning it to me several times the last couple weeks as she comes over to visit with baby, she just brought me over her steamer to borrow 🫠

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Tell her to go ahead and iron the curtains for you and take her steamer home since you will not be getting to it

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Yeah that was not offered though...so... 😬

If she did offer, I find it strange but would accept.

But there are other things that would be more helpful and simple efforts. Like vacuuming, a thing I'm not allowed to do yet because of my c- section and with said toddler, the floor gets messy fast. But ok cool sure, my curtains (that are only in my bedroom mind you) look wrinkled.

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I’d be like “thanks so much for loaning us the steam cleaner! Can you make sure husband knows what to do? I’m assuming you brought it for your son to use since I’m only 1 month postpartum and still have ACTIVE STITCHES in my body from my C-section.”

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