I’ve recently finalized a very long divorce process; I’m struggling to get back on my feet and I know I’m off my game professionally. I’m not sure what to do get back on track but I think having some sort of coach would be helpful to check in with and help me get back to normal. Has anyone else experienced this? What did you do? Any suggestions for a coach?

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Check your company’s EAP. Many of the counselors are versed in life/career coaching as well.

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I agree with others. See a therapist as that will help. I’m currently in the middle of a divorce that is taking a turn and it has taken a toll on me professionally. Just take one day at a time. You can always restart new tomorrow. Hang in there.

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Yes that’s totally normal and I lived through that. You need to take some time off to travel and take a break if that’s possible before you think about anything else. Coaching might help but sometimes, just talking to friends do! I personally did a combination of coaching/psychologist, travelled a lot and took a career break which I never regretted.

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1 year. No, it wasn’t hard to go back at all because consulting is always hiring in my field… 3 years is a longer time indeed but you can always say that you ran your business but it didn’t work out… you just need to give a reason to why you took this break without giving any personal details

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