Just cannot get into my job lately. I don’t know if it’s the hormones, the upcoming FET transfer next week, or if I’m truly just over my company. I’ve been there 5 1/2 years. I started out as an executive assistant and last year I created a path for myself for communications. Almost a year into the role, a new manager was brought on, to my surprise. She is great, but I’m finding I don’t have enthusiasm for this role at all. I don’t think I have a choice to go back to being an executive assistant

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Follow up, I should say she is great personally, but I don’t feel like I gel well with her professionally. I get talked over a lot in meetings, but then I’m told to be more proactive. I think the way my company handled bringing her in was done so poorly, not her fault. Please tell me this is just hormones.

The only way to tell is post transfer, how you feel. Going through the fertility process does put into perspective what you’re doing in the grand scheme of things. Your options are to communicate with your team to improve the current situation or find a new company, but keep in mind maternity leaves at a new company (if they require 1 year of service)

Very good point about mat leaves at another company. I was wondering about that too. I’ll focus on the transfer and go from there. Thank you ❤️

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