My husband gets really angry upset , starts literally jumping around the house and hitting himself when i ask for even basic things for ex:
My family have to give him huge sum of money and clothes for Diwali but when i ask for basic clothes from his family or him for diwali
In India his family has a separate room for his brother with cupboard. But for us we live of a suitcase and i sleep literally on marble floor, he sleeps in a bed with his mom and dad.
Any advice to deal with this?

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Do you really need advice to “deal with this”? You need lawyer recommendations.

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Best advice: get a divorce.

Before that find a psychiatrist and have therapy sessions. Lot of times there are differences that can be solved without taking on the worst of the action.

If he doesn’t respect you enough as a human, you should leave him

Has the situation changed?

Become financially independent and leave that man.

He is a man child. Stand up to him

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