My husband surprised me today by coming to the office and it was very sweet but he's kind of a lot, and it was embarrassing. He was introducing himself to people and laughs very loud and a few people gave each other amused glances or looked up in an annoyed way and I just need talking off the ledge because I don't want to be ashamed of him! But I just feel awkward and embarrassed for him and me and everyone.

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Coworkers come and go. Your husband is your partner in life. Ignore the funny looks. They don’t get how awesome he is. You do.

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I agree! I think this is great advice.

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Be glad you have a husband who thought to come see you and loves you enough to do so. He was trying to be nice and screw anyone who gave a look. He will be with you a lot longer than any of them. It was a nice thing to do and you should enjoy him and the visit!

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Who cares what anyone thinks. He is who he is - no need to apologize or feel awkward about it. He must have been happy to have met everyone.

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You love him despite his big energy (and maybe because of it at one time) - so why wouldn’t they?

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This is so relatable because my husband i the same way. He is a chef so he has no idea about how corporate settings are. When he comes to my job he will look in our fridge and critique everyone's food.

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Honestly I woudn't worry about it. No reason to feel embarrassed OP, I would tell my coworkers to suck an egg if they didn't like it. In the end their opinions of your husband should not matter.

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Also could you ask your husband to keep it down a little bit more next time? Would he listen if you asked him?

Lol awww well it seems like his intentions are in the right place. I would say that you should just have a conversation with him. Tell him that there is a culture at your job and explain it to him. It will give him an idea of how to behave.

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