My long term significant other is an entrepreneurial CFO and is working with a couple of dysfunctional startups. I hear what’s going on and offer advice. He’s hired me to work as a consultant a few times, doing basic things, which I’m happy to do. I get more done in a few hours than their whole exec team gets done in days - they just talk and complain and throw each other under the bus. Then they make bad decisions because the individuals are looking out for themselves. Question …

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Have you experienced the urge to want to run your partner/spouses business because it’s a disaster? Or have you ever worked for such a dysfunctional company it’s like working for a bunch of egotistical 8 year olds?

I worked for a startup years ago that I always assumed was pretty dysfunctional, though I was generally shielded from knowing exactly what was happening. With things more or less out of my sight, I tended to think of it as being like several toddlers in a rain coat. The lesson I took from it was to be very cautious when thinking about working for a startup.

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