My mental health has taken a nose dive. I’m considering breaking up with my fiancee so she doesn’t have to go through the hassle of dealing with me anymore.

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Breaking up with her will do wonders for your mental health. Seek help. Talk to a therapist. Get on the right meds. Don't begin self-destructive habits...

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Delay the wedding if you think it’s necessary, but don’t break up. You need her more than you know right now. Things will only get darker if you move towards darkness. Let her be your wall to lean on. Even if you don’t end up together, let things figure themselves out rather than make abrupt edits to satisfy your itch of what you think might be wrong. Things change over time, you will not feel like this forever. Focus on positivity, and soon it will break through. ♥️

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Don’t break up with her.
Be honest with her.
Tell her what you’re going through-every last bit of it and don’t hold back one bit.

A good partner will understand and be supportive.

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That’s when you need your fiancé the most, and the best part of having a partner. She wants to help you through or worst, or she wouldn’t be engaged to you

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For clarification, I was being facetious about breaking up. Don't be a martyr.

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Second everything by Graphic Designer 1
Good luck and hope it all gets better. Life is hard, our industry is hard, don't make it harder for yourself.

Be honest with her, don’t break up with her, you will regret it. More then ever she needs honesty and to be close to you! Get help, and you’ll be so happy with what the future brings.

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