My *really* good friend is mad at me and I don’t know what to do. I was supposed to meet her today to view a rehearsal dinner venue in upstate NY. I was late for the train (my sitter was late, bad traffic, bad planning all on moi!) So she went solo. I felt awful though truly did everything I could to get there. Went to Penn Station, tried every alternate route, even enlisted an Uber ($375). She just said “Thanks, I’m fine.” and iced me out. How do I make it up to her? Feel like un-hot garbage.

Best Christmas things to do with a two-year-old?

Anyone with anxious attachment tendencies? Going through a breakup and I keep thinking about how I pushed him away and then am down on myself, replaying memories in my mind. At the end of the day, I think we were a bad match from the beginning and misaligned, but so hard not to beat myself over my anxious attachment during my relationship

Just found out that my favorite aunt, who claimed I was her “favorite” niece, chose to leave all her valuables to her other two nieces who never visited or called her once in the last ten years. My aunt passed away suffering from cancer last year and didn’t have her own kids. I was there by her side throughout her battle. I still wish I had done more, made her life easier. I probably sound petty, but a part of me is forcing me to re-evaluate every interaction I ever had with her.

Today is my 23rd birthday and I had very few people say happy birthday today. I was still in daily contact with my ex (I know a mistake) and he snapped me but did not send me happy birthday (we were together 3yrs ). So I finally blocked him on everything for the first time. (I should’ve done it a long time ago for other reasons) With the pandemic and everything else going on I’m feeling hopeless and alone. 😓 is there anything to be happy about right now?

My ex and I have trouble remaining broken up. We’ve broken up over 9 times (9 times!). It’s dysfunctional, but we generally love being around each other and it feels comfortable. What to do? (Cont)

The biggest thing I keep running and running around my head- after 8 months, why did he drop me? When he texted ending it l….it wasn’t me, like we weren’t us, his words were from someone else, like I didn’t matter. It doesn’t matter how much it wasn’t about me, how he chose to end it, and that’s what crushed me. Who I thought I knew was wrong. I want to know how close he was to loving me.

Is bfs account Contract get extended or they simply release and we get bach to parent (cts), for another project is complete bgv happening or they just handle from their side?

My GF and I are dating for 2.5 yrs , She met an office colleague (he has a GF) recently who she initiated a friendship with. I feel that they interact a lot and I'm a little worried of her getting too close to him. A day ago she asked him for lunch and they were out for almost 4-5 hrs. When I expressed how I felt she keeps saying there's nothing going on. I feel that when start to get emotionally close to some other guy than SO then it's not a good sign in relationship. Am I overthinking? contd.

So other than money (which is obviously very important) what’s the incentive to make partner? Is it crazy that I just want to do my work and go home to my amazing family without the added pressure of running a business and managing others? I’m only a third year (in a new practice area) so maybe the thought of being competent enough to ever be a partner just seems unrealistic. 🤷🏼‍♀️

I find people to be so disappointing. I wish I could live all alone without them. But I guess that’s lonely and we need to feel loved by someone.

This is the only bowl I can think to post in, but I'm really feeling it today. Has anyone lost their best friend (i.e. through time/growing up) and feel like none of their current friends could live up to the fun/connection you used to have with your high school BFF? I feel like I put too much focus on that one friend and also my boyfriend and just never actually made time for anyone else. I fucked myself over.

Anyone here want to be a friend can ping me..

How have you dealt with anti-vaxxer friends? I have one and I’m not mad or angry at them. I’m just disappointed that I’ve associated myself with someone like them. 😔

Any books that you found very helpful to read as expecting parents? We’re just nine weeks along, but would love to start preparing however we can!

Thinking about moving from Seattle to San Diego, but don’t have any friends down there. Any advice for how to meet queer friends?

What are some myths you all have heard to figure out if you’re having a boy or girl?

Why is it that a lot of couples I know living in big cities are in open relationship?

How common are prenups in UK among middle-class? I'm thinking of asking my SO for one but I worry it would be viewed by anyone else as a one foot-out-the-door kinda situation. I'm just trying to be safe with little I have, seeing my friends' marriages.

Best restaurants worth a bit of a drive from DC?
Inn at little Washington, goodstone inn, the Charleston, le comptoir du vin, clavel. Am I missing anything?

Potentially at an all time low - personally, professionally and emotionally. I have to believe that life’s inflection points happen for a reason. There’s a bigger lesson for me around this corner...

Mealybugs on every pothos. I've tried Neem oil and rubbing alcohol but no luck. About to raise the bar with weekly insecticidal soaps. Has anyone ever been able to get rid of mealybugs?

Sales tax question...if I purchase a gym membership in a state that doesn't tax gym fees and then use that membership at the gym's chain in another state that taxes gym memberships or admission fees, is tax due to the 2nd state (does the gym chain owe tax in the 2nd state upon my usage)?

Cleared first round and my on-site is next week. It just came to my notice something about visa sponsorship in JD. It states “This role is not eligible for immigration sponsorship.” I have H1B but I would need H1b transfer and GC sponsorship. Can anyone help me out here.

Dm for LTI referals

Currently work in dc but want to move to London to be closer to aging grandma. I have a U.K. passport and 6 years experience in public affairs and comms consulting. Any advice for getting a job?

I got offer from Bosch for 2 wheeler ABS testing , How is the work in 2 wheeler ABS team any one have some idea? Please suggest

I think people who “kiss” their dogs/pet on their mouths are disgusting

Anyone here pivot from politics/campaigns to consulting? Worked at one of the national committees for a few years and decided to get my MBA as a working professional to try and transition. Any advice appreciated!

Developers are the most trusting people I've ever met. They happily copy and paste random commands from strangers on the internet into their terminals and run them.

If that's not trust, I don't know what is 😁

Hi fishes, help me with this offer. It's an SDE role, 8 YOE. I'm currently at Google with $350-400k TC. This would be a level 5 at Robinhood. Base $210k. Sign-on bonus $45k Equity: $450k-500k. Thanks!

Round or exact numbers on banners/LPs? I was curious about this since in negotiations for example or pricing it's better to have the exact number. But if you have a case study, for example, is it better to say "Client X increased their revenue to 1,000,000 ARR" instead of "Client X increased their revenue to 987,500 ARR" ? Anyone has seen any impact on conversion rates?

Howz the work life balance of a Senior Consultant in tech consulting in a client facing role?
Skills: Java 8, Spring Boot.

Please do answer with respect to EY India only.

Role will be as a tech lead in java development team.

Client probably HSBC.

Few days left in Notice Period.

Anyone know what merit based scholarship options HBS and Wharton have?

I am expecting HR call for Salary Negotiations with Siemens Digital Industries this week. What expected Salary should I quote ?

YOE : 9 Years
Tech Stack: C++
Interviewed for : Simcenter-3D Product
Current CTC : 23.5 LPA

I don't want to quote something Out of Budget for Siemens, but also don't want the Hike% to be too low.. Want to strike a Balance..

Expecting Honest and Genuine suggestions from existing Siemens Employees

What is the pay for a technical writer with 7 years of experience at Siemens?

Hello Everyone.

Tata Motors is hiring for various roles in Design, Program Management, Quality, Operation, Sourcing functions.

Feel free to connect if anyone is interested.@TataMotors