Need help
How to keep people in their boundaries?
How to react when they cross boundaries?
(Wrt Leg pulling and commenting )

NYC 🐠 Anyone try the dating app MOTTO? Any good?

I saw my friends text messages (iPhone) and saw that she was texting a guy she shouldn’t be texting. She told me that the “Maybe” function on her iphone is glitching & the wrong name shows up. Cont.

Any female fish in Downtown SFO, want to grab a drink and bite? 30M here

“You are lucky that I’m talking to you right now” - is this type of response too cocky ?

So many people live in NYC but still it feels like the loneliness place on the planet. Does anybody have positive stories from dating apps? How do you guys meet ppl in general?

I feel like being gay just adds another layer of difficulty while trying to date in consulting.

I'm in the Wharf, but could come into city for a meet up.

R single Korean girls less interested in dating single dads compared to white girls?

So, this is a little awkward, but I recently moved to SD for a fresh start, and honestly, I love this city. My problem is I have been more of a homebody since I moved here and I'm a little intimidated to go out and meet people because I don't feel like I fit in here. I am overweight and this city is full of active, and attractive people. I guess I am wondering what my experience would be if I got out more? I feel like people look at me when I'm in public because I stand out due to my size.

Thinking this is the year i iA find someone, prayers for all of us single 🐟 wanting to take that next step!

My wife and I just don’t get along. I try not to carry that baggage to work, but it’s tough. Some days I lie and say I’m working late to drink beer at work and flirt with this HOT account director.

I heard some folks have met their significant others on here. Spill and share - was it direct dm, did you see a pic first, was it like at first bowl comment??

I’m 27 years old, fit, cute, very well educated. Looking for a serious relationship!

What's dating like in SF? New to the area.

Any Punjabi guys here? 26F, west coast

Deleted the dating apps again. Wonder how long I’ll last this time. 🤔

I’ll start hooking up with someone with no intention of dating them because of red flags, but if the sex is good I want to lock it down for the future (even if we are not compatible in our personality, I’ll start to see them in a positive way and flirt more since it makes the sex even better)! The guy starts to think I want a relationship (which is half true) and then distances himself. Anyone else go through this cycle?

Anyone want to go on a date today? 🤷🏻‍♀️

30 m ny/nj. US citizen. Moved as a teenager. INTJ. Single since I figured I’m not fighting the biological clock and have all the time in the world to meet someone and get settled. Things changed after I watched Akshay’s mom (Indian Matchmaking) tell him even 25 is too late and not marrying somehow messes up lives of people around him. While the show was staged, there might be truth to the latter part.
Looking for F in ny/nj. Personality: NOT Aparna. NOT Nadia but def more Nadia than Aparna.🙏

Need advice. Very Shy guy and girl, met a while back for a side hustle both like each other a LOT, relationship has progressed in other areas but not in the physical realm, primarily because neither officially asked the other out. Guy is a very rough around edges, asked for a date by saying ‘anytime you need breakfast or lunch, let me know’. I am an independent gal and didn’t like the way it came across. I really want to take this forward but am out of ideas on how to make a date happen.

Is it safe and worth to join Birlasoft with 38lpa. I have offers upto 34.5 from other reputed organisations.

We interviewed a great candidate, extended a verbal offer and she accepted. We sent the written offer a few days ago but she hasn’t opened it or accepted (it’s expiring tomorrow). Have you ever had to follow up? How did you handle it? My company is small with no HR, so I have to handle the hiring myself.

Anyone work at Allen Norton & Blue? Any insight on salary and work life balance?

Any advice for someone looking to transition into a full HR Generalist role from Recruiting. I’m currently a Campus Recruiter with about 5 years of HR experience (Coordinator- Higher Ed). I received my PHR certification in September 2020 and sitting for my SHRM-CP in two weeks. I’m having a hard time transitioning into a full Generalist position.

Hi ppl,
I am Poonam, Chartered Accountant by profession. Currently pursuing Diploma in IFRS from ACCA. I have recently relocated to Delhi from Bangalore. I am keenly looking forward to work in Finance & Accounts, Financial Reporting, FP&A profiles for 2 months now, but unable to get enough referrals for Delhi NCR region. Do support, I am immediately available for joining.

Looking for little gifts, candy, drawing pencils. etc to help build student morale during this difficult year

I am new to DI...can someone please tell me is it mandatory to claim telephone and LTA...can't we change it to taxable component ? Because I need more In hand

What's your commute time to work?

I want to become a podcast person. Help

What are your hours like as a clerk? I’m sure it varies a lot based on the judge but curious to hear people’s experiences

Need advice: do you tell your manager that you’re unhappy or do you just leave?

I’m being taken advantage of with being thrown so much work and really don’t see my salary increasing to be in line with my coworkers doing similar work. I’m a consistent high performer - management reviews tell me that much.

My coworker did mention to the manager that they’re not being paid well for the work they do, and our manager took it personally and told them they’re ungrateful 🥲

If your manager gives a false commitment of onsite then what can be done against the manager ?

Hi sharks!

I am a M.Tech. in Biotechnology graduating in 2023.
Due to the current recession, facing a lot of problems in job hunting and placements.

I also have basic python skills, SQL in intermediary level, and I have studied about ITGC audits from a peer of mine. I know the basics regarding IT Audits like Program Changes, APD, Computer Changes, etc.

I have interned at Tata medical centre and have written 3 research paper, one of them is in AI.

Please help.

KPMG Deloitte PwC Accenture EY

Hi fishes,

Comment your total hike, VP , ctc current, level, designation, tech stack you have received as per Nov 22.

My boss just quit!After over 15 years in the job..... He just quit! I'm lost on how I react let alone what to do!

How is WLB/ job security and Future Growth at Autodesk for AWS devops profile ?

I got an offer ( after 6 months of joining here in Infosys) and informed my lead the same.He spoke with my manager and my manager has agreed to retain me but needs his manager approval.
Now I have waited for a week without resigning to see if I can get any written official communication of the same.

But all of a sudden, my manager is asking me why are you this doing now? You have just now joined after speaking with his manager.
Why is this sudden change in his behaviour?

Should I resign?

Give me smart wale likes

Hello Sharks,
Does SAP provide high paying career??
I am not aware of industrial scenario much so please guide.

Thank you in Advance

When the form 16 will be out?

Hi Fishes,

I need 11 likes to unlock DM. Please help me with it

Regards,
New Fish in the Sea

I got an offer from IBM for band 7B and the package offered is 21 LPA + 5 lakh joining bonus.
Got another one from GE with a lesser package. Please can someone help me in deciding which company should I be joining - IBM or GE?

Hello everyone,

I want to switch my company and I am having 1 year experience in IT field. Please help me to know that how can I apply for switch?

Is anyone travelling from Mumbai to Pune?
If Yes, Meri Activa Padi hai Mumbai me lete aaoge kya drive karke? Please 🥺🙏🏻.

Hi fishes,

Please give advice.

Cognizant - Consultant(US Healthcare) :16 + 1 Lakhs

Mindtree - Consultant(US Healthcare): 17 + 1 Lakhs

EXL Services: Lead Assistant Manager: 18 lakhs(All fixed)

Which one to join considering the culture, WLB, and growth?

दीपावली की हार्दिक शुभकामनाएं। 🌸 🪔

TCS ghosted me. I cleared 2 rounds of interview and they asked me to update the documents. They are in verified status since 2 weeks. Since then I heard nothing from them. The salary negotiation has not happened yet. I called the HR and got the response like they will get back in a few days.
Anyone knows when will they get back??

Currently working with a bank as a Corporate Banker.
I have an interview call with takshashila consulting.
All the reviews I have read are negative.
Can you guys share your experiences and Reviews about takshashila.

Hi Bowlmates,

I will be getting into a compensation discussion with Payoneer, US based Fintech company.

Current details:
YOE: 3+
CTC: 18.19lpa (15.82 fixed + 2.37 variable) + 1.21 lpa worth(Stock Units)
Total: 19.4lpa

Need help in figuring out what is the optimum compensation amount i should be quoting for a role of "Solution Consultant and Implementation Manager".

All your inputs will be appreciated and thanks in advance.

Guys whats your thoughts on cognizant consulting ? Is it good for capital markets domain consulting ?

To dm I need likes, support please