Need some fashion advice for beating the heat while still looking professional. What are your go-to shirt brands for a business casual environment this time of year?

Have you ever snoop through your partner’s phone without them knowing? If so, did you find anything shocking?!

I'm feeling a lot of anger towards my manager (now he's acting normal but there were moments where he was condescending/dismissive/mocked my and others work/arrogant/said stuff was "wrong" constantly/belittling the difficulty of tasks etc. in the past project).
Maybe it is "standard chewing out" but it bothered me a lot. So much that I find myself still getting all fired up inside thinking about it...
Idk how to let go of this :/ Thoughts?

How did you give notice you were lateraling to people you like? Particularly if you haven't been there that long?

I'm lateraling to another firm because frankly I think the management of this one is terrible, but the people (and individual partners) I actually work with are awesome. I've only been here for about 18 months, so I imagine that short time frame will make it extra awkward 😬

I’m dealing with a difficult management situation and don’t know what to do, how would you report someone when nobody really cares what’s going on or is automatically going to side with the other person?

Is there a corporate way to bring up to senior leaders that an IC is causing issues across multiple teams because they are demanding and also doesn’t collaborate well? The IC gives vague “direction” then says they are too busy to clarify. They also refuse to use our project management/ collaboration tools.

PARTNERS: two questions —1. If you see an associate has really low hours for the month, do you imagine them chillen on a beach somewhere or do you consider they probably spent most of their days sitting in front of the computer being “available”? 2. If you send an associate a random e-mail on a weekend like “Can you pull X and send to Y”, would you get annoyed if they responded saying they weren’t by a comp or would you consider it reasonable that they wouldn’t be by a comp on a weekend?

At an in-office happy hour I once had a coworker shout out loud that she doesn’t trust people who do not drink upon discovering I had OJ in my champagne glass. #rude #IdidntGiveAfuck

@women in the ME, I’m moving from NYC to Dubai. Is there some things to consider for attire in a business environment or is it the same as in NA? I’m thinking about business travel to other countries like KSA 👀

My male boss recommended the book “The Confidence Code” which is a self help book for women. It was recommended to all the females that work under him. I feel like that's a little inappropriate?

What do you do when when someone at the top of your firm says something bigoted and you don’t call them out immediately?

Is my manager forcing me out?

In our 121 last we had a good discussion on creating a personal development plan, with the idea being I’d write down clear goals & action points to get from my current level to the next, and I’d provide weekly evidence of it. I prepped the doc accordingly, but instead of wanting to discuss it, he said I have 4 weeks to “turn things around” - without giving any new info on what I’ve done wrong - esp given I wrote my goals based on this same feedback from last week??

Small firm (my boss, me, & a paralegal). After a hearing I did not handle, boss intended to seek review of the ruling in its entirety. What was communicated to me by paralegal was to seek review of a portion.

Seeking review is now time-barred. Boss is not upset, but this is 1 case & 1 problem. There are other cases & other stories.

How do I talk to my boss about being more present (boss is never in office, has “too many” emails, never answers his phone) without being seen as insubordinate?

Boss: I need you to stop challenging me on every decision.

Me: I don’t want us to have a confrontational relationship and I think we can agree something needs to change. When you make stupid decisions, that affects my business and it makes me feel like you’re not up to the job. That makes it harder for my team to do our jobs. I think to be an authentic leader I need to be radically candid with you and point our your mistakes. So are you willing to work with me on this?

Just started a new job a couple of weeks ago and also today found out my wife's pregnant. When is an appropriate time to tell my new boss? Company policy asks for 3 months notice but it's a growing startup. What does everyone think is appropriate?

Partners, what are signs/examples that a project’s leadership is prioritizing the clients needs over the team beyond the normal ‘nature of client service’? Is a convo is worth it?

Anyone else get frustrated when the partner brags about their billable hour amount for the month? Like congrats, you get to bill .2 for each piece of mail. You also get .2 for every letter your secretary types up as a "form letter" you never even look at. As an Associate, I don't get those easy/automatic hours.

How do I begin reconcile with a former employer who terminated me for no real reason?

My direct supervisor was extremely unsupportive, set unclear expectations, and terminated me after 2 months.

The only reason I need to reach out is to find out why so that I can move forward but I also don’t feel comfortable giving them another chance. Any advice?

Someone tell me why a partner just took me to lunch as a "Thanksgiving treat" and he took me to Taco Bell

My firm’s holiday party is on a weekday after work. I can just wear what I’d normally wear to work for that day, right?

New York Life. Beautiful.

Is there any tax deductions for variable pay when its credited to every 3 months?

How bout Montana? Anyone? Remote maybe?

Hi, I am interviewing for an experienced associate role in PWC Management Consulting for the asset management practice? Has anybody been through an interview for this role/similar role and has any tips/information to share?

Goodbye XRP! Thanks for the awesome gains and good luck hitting that absurd $100B market cap 😁

I have been tagged for this project that doesn’t start until June 10th. My utilization is going to drop significantly but at the same time the deployment team cannot present me elsewhere. Ugh!

Hey 🐟 fam. I’m starting a new gig next week that’s 90% WFH. I’d love some recommendations on a second monitor. Nothing crazy pricy, but something that’ll work well with my MacBook Pro. Thanks y’all.

Living in a ~700 unit rental building with 50+ staff - any suggested holiday tipping? Staff at the building come and go all the time (we just got a whole new wave of doormen in November)

Looking for a panty dropper used car for around 40k. What would you suggest? Considering a wide range of options from x5 to F type

Can someone please point me in the direction of some NYC recruiting firms?

Bonus points if they hire international talent (I'm Australia based).

Thank you in advance.

Do any real people actually want schools to reopen as it stands now? Im hearing so much about it but it feels like a weird disconnected political thing and not a live humans with kids thing.
*Obv the goal is to get covid under control so kids can go back safely, this is assuming infection rates stay steady or continue to climb

Has anyone ever experienced a sharp stabbing pain on the left side of your chest (under breast) that lasts for a few seconds and goes away?

Could this be a type of heartburn?

I’ve been to the doctor and she didn’t think I should be too worried because I’m young and healthy and it doesn’t hurt to the touch, but still can’t figure out what it is.

Recommendations for comprehensive books on the finance industry? I want to learn more about investment banking and modern financial instruments. Got a lot of free time during this lockdown

How many times were you told you were being "unrealistic"?

Just logged in. How is everyone? I guess I need likes to msg? Any pointers?

Transplants - what was the best way you met others when you first moved here?

Any tennis players out in East Valley 4.5 and above?

Looking for some girl friends - where the professional, career minded Phoenix women at? (I am a female)

Sheesh, this humidity is driving me crazy!

Just got some fun news, my CEO decided he wants to have an office Christmas party this and just told me I'm in charge of it... Does anyone have any suggestions on where I can host a party for around Christmas for 150-220 people? I know this is super last minute

What do you guys think about the upcoming midterms? Any feel for which way we're swinging?

Hello! Looking to relocate to Phoenix, any thoughts on budget for a 2 bed/1-2bath? Within commuting distance to Tempe, in unit w/d! Also any areas to look at?

Moving as a single 27yo, need to be at ASU 2x per week. What location provides best access and value for intramural sports, bars/restaurants, date activities, and whatever else I'm forgetting?

Tempe/Mills Ave (for school and it's a cool area but too young?), Old Town Scottsdale (is it touristy?), Roosevelt Row (too far from school), somewhere else?

I’m currently moving to phoenix soon are there any good dispensaries in the area that are hiring? I’m looking for calm environments that aren’t overstimulating because I’m autistic and must work places are ableist

Best Chinese food in the Valley? My favorite place closed down during the pandemic. 😕

If you had to leave Phoenix tomorrow, where would you move?

Can anyone recommend a wedding Photographer that would be available to shoot the first Friday in January, that will not cost an arm and a leg?

Do you guys think Phoenix will ever become a major tech hub? I feel like the most we're known for is deserts and drugs smh

👀👀👀 Where all my Phoenix consultants at?

Anyone gone glamping in the desert? New to Phoenix and wanted to try it but a bit scared lol

Has anyone been to the Zoolights at the Zoo? I have never been, I'm relatively new to the area. Is this a good event for a casual walk around date night?

Best bar or restaurant to watch the World Cup matches this weekend? And go!

Anyone have good running routes for long distance? 10+ miles (marathon training) looking for Scottsdale and north Phoenix areas. Thanks!

Are there any fun holiday pop-up bars this weekend? I would love a reason to wear my ugly sweater!!