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I retired at 42 - 6 months ago. NW $3.6 with $2.5 of that in liquid and retirement. While I had always planned on FIRE, the catalyst was losing a few close friends and family and realizing how short life is. I was over the rate race and stress.
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Retired at 40, almost 6 years ago. FI/FU funds were at $2m at that point, with NW ~$2.2m
My trigger was the last years in consulting, the daily grind, the travel, the missing out on child's life and growth, and the strain on my spouse. Couldn't have made a better decision.
A very tiny percentage of people who are aware of, and realistically able to, FIRE actually end up FIREing. The onemoreyear-itis is real.
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Hi, thanks for sharing your situation.
I’m not FIRE’d yet, but I’m on the path. I’m in my 30s and currently working as a senior full stack developer. My focus right now is to build more experience and to find reliable, long‑term clients that I can grow together with.
I can relate to what you’re feeling, even though I’m at a different stage. On paper, your position looks very strong – early 50s with around $3M in liquid net worth is something many people in tech, including myself, only dream about. But I’ve realized that FIRE is not just about hitting a number. It’s also about mindset, fear of change, and having a clear idea of what life will look like after you leave full‑time work.
From reading other people’s experiences, a few things stand out to me:
The real trigger is often not the exact net worth, but a clear vision of how you want to spend your time (family, travel, hobbies, part‑time projects, etc.).
Running very conservative plans (bad markets, higher inflation, unexpected costs) can help you trust that your portfolio will survive even in worse scenarios.
Many people think in terms of regret: in their 70s or 80s, will they regret working a few extra years, or will they regret not using their healthiest years for what really matters to them?
As someone earlier in the journey, I actually find your situation inspiring. You’ve already done the hard financial work. Maybe the next step is less about money and more about designing the kind of life you want after FI.
Whatever you decide, I hope you find a balance where you feel both financially safe and personally fulfilled.
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OP, how do you feel about your job?
Do you have a clear picture what you would do if you retired now?
How much do you spend every year?
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Yeah, I like BigERN. He has done a lot of good work. He is right about US historical data.
But US historical data has issues. :)
Awesome achievement
I live in NY and also have a place in FL . The plan is to make FL home . I could fire now if I made that move but not ready yet
Wow how will your networth x3 in 13 years?
Because I diverted all the energy to things I was doing anyway. Work fit into the picture nicely and while it is stressful at times I thrive on it and enjoy it. Might as well keep getting the house’s money. I’ll arrive at the day where I’m too tired but that’s not yet!