Signed up for an alumni networking event tonight and now I’m dreading it and want to skip but I’ve been in my apartment all day 😓 what do?

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Just go. You'll be ok.

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Welp I’m on the way. Planning to grab a free drink, assess, and GTFO if needed

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Sometimes you go to one of these things and actually have a bit of fun or meet someone useful. It’s probably no healthy to be alone aaaall the time. Or so I tell myself. Even though tbh that sound dreamy

KPMG 1 I'm with you. Corporate social culture "demands" certain things from us, but I disagree that we have to suck it up and be uncomfortable outside of work. I think the burden of work should be on our peers to control their judgments of someone who is not as social. The onus is on them to accept us for who we are and our value as a hard-working and kind colleague, not for us to be exhausted by attending these events in fear of ramifications if we do what is right for us.

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I classify this kind of thing up there with getting motivated to work out ... think of how good you will feel when it’s done (this applies to both situations). You will have met up with old acquaintances and made new ones, stumbled across awesome connections, had some laughs, and definitely come across some valuable learnings and reflections. What’s not to love !?!?

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Yup, then why is this not extrovert consultant bowl?

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I see all these networking events and never go. Networking events are for extroverts. I do attend other events which are not specific to networking as that attracts varied crowd.

Just go.

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