Therapist says I am depressed. But I don’t feel sadness. I feel completely apathetic. I find myself caring less and less every day. I don’t know what to do about it.

On the road every week- feeling burnt out, depressed, seems like nobody cares

Projectile vomiting into the bathtub while using the bathroom from the other end is so much fun. Yay stomach bugs

Anyone else feeling particularly out of whack the pst week or2 ? I feel out of touch and out of control; inspired but unmotivated, drinking and smoking a lot of pot ; anxious but not worried, insomnia

What’s going to happen to the people who are at a high risk for severe illness if they catch the coronavirus? Will they still make them travel? Should they look for new jobs that don’t require travel?

What are your thoughts on those who refuse to wear cloth masks as a healthcare professional?

Hi All! For those that have had HSGs/saline sonos done, did it mess up the timing of that cycle? I’m going on 2 weeks after my period was supposed to start (and am not pregnant) and frustrated because my doctor is waiting on my period to start in order to start with IVF. Thanks in advance for any insights you may have!

4 years sober today. So much to reflect on, not least of which how important it is to “get comfortable getting uncomfortable”. In my experience, it’s truly the only way forward.

Sending strength to you all 🖤

Has anyone had a nurse state the assumed sex at 12 week ultrasound? The nurse is fairly sure it's a boy, and I'm wondering how accurate her guess is based on a close look of the genitals. Confirmation won't happen until 20 week appt, too far away!

Anyone else basically become comatose on either Saturday or Sunday when you get a weekend without work? I have all of these things I’d love to do, but as soon as my brain understands that I don’t have to work, it’s like I completely lose all energy. It’s making me feel bad about myself. Any tips?

Any advice on dealing with an eating disorder in the workplace? Mine is taking over and my work is crumbling. I often can’t focus or remember anything from meetings or conversations because I havent..

Qualys is very bad company, nothing positive, only good thing medical insurance and 1 month np

Do any retail workers out there still get severe anxiety when you see someone without a mask?

I join tcs by changing my profile and my previous exp was in 5 yr pre-sales.
I am giving my best in work but still escalations are raised against me by client.
My husband is also in tcs he is moving to onsite in Jan and my travel is also planned mid next year.
I am giving 12hour daily in my job to adjust in new profile. And affecting my health now.
Shall I quit the job and move with my husband with on dependant visa? Or i shall continue to get pressurized and wait for my onsite?
Plz suggest.

Anyone have recommendations for ADHD coaches, preferably focused on managing it in a senior-level role? Also preferably if focused on the female ADHD experience. Open to remote coaching with folks in other locations but I'm based in NYC.

Can anyone recommend a good therapist in the Arlington, VA area?

Started 18mg concerta last Monday. Got bumped to 36mg today, had two cups of coffee and cannot stop smoking hence feeling jittery, not anxious. Is it the caffeine or nicotine mixing with increased stimulants?

Can we add parents in group insurance as dependent?
How and when?

How do you deal with PTSD from deployment?

1/22/22 Daily Checkin! What’s your work out for this Saturday?

This is a bit specific of a Q, but has anyone here gone to an ED treatment center in NY? Which one/Did you find it helpful?

China has implemented mandatory anal Covid tests for foreign visitors. This seems extremely woke, since anal tests are more accurate than nasal, and I think we should implement this back home in USA. Like for people who go to the store or gym, just a quick butt test to keep people safe. Thoughts?

Asking how many holes I had to drill to hang a sun shade on my front porch is a micro-aggression just so we’re clear.

Is the RPA market still hot? Do we have nice opportunities?

My boss is always making last minute changes to my schedule. Adding shifts or asking me to cover for other people. Any advice on how to handle this? I want to be a team player but the last minute changes stress me out.

Hi Fishes,

I just received an offer from a company I was interviewing at. However, they are rushing things and asking me to sign the offer letter ASAP.

Can you please guide me on how do I use this offer to get an even higher total compensation? Do I accept the offer and then appear for other interviews? Do I tell them to wait? Need guidance.

Thanks!!!

Any E&Y can refer me to this job id - 1189021

Hi Fishes!

I am currently working on SAP CPI,PIPO,CPI-DS (basically Integration as a whole) development (also attend Support issues regularly) with experience of around 1 year. My leads are quite happy with my works.

For career growth, what shall be my ideal path ahead?
1. Only concentrate on Integration
2. Continue Integration for some years, then switch to Functional modules (in this case, after how many years should I ideally switch)


And what shall be the ideal time to switch companies?

Thoughts on serial dating, via social media apps?

Looking for case partners, have final rounds with 2 MBB in 2 weeks (Preferably candidates in similar situations)

Is ISB worth for CA with 4YOE. CCTC : 17 LPA

9/22 Thread (BC):

I’m currently on CO-OP and note that Christmas is coming up we get the 23rd and 24 th off. Is it unreasonable to ask for the entire week off (an extra 3 days)? I am just the intern and my work isn’t time critical to anybody.

Hi, I am looking to be referred into some top consulting firms. I am a Project Coordinator at Nielsen with 1 YOE. I have applied thru various job portals but the application does not seem to be viewed or going forward. Would be really helpful if my fellow fishes can refer me. I will be happy to discuss further on this and share my CV. Have a good day!

What is the pay difference at consultant level between Dubai and Riyadh? Thanks

Hi -

So I got hired to build out the data function of my company. But I’ve noticed that there are certain leadership members that don’t seem to respect my function nor think data is that important. Has anybody faced this problem? Any advice?

Folks, based on your experience, what are the pros and cons of making an internal transfer within your firm and/or applying for a role at another firm when making a move to the west?

I’ll have the California Kings flight and a tomato soup please

If I just chill on the bench for long will I still only get fired at the end of the year?

May be this is off the topic..
One of my friend who is a doctor & is an international med graduate. He passed his United States Medical Licensing Exams with above average scores. He has applied fr the match last yr & was nt able to match. Match process costs around USD10k; this year he is applying again after borrowing funds frm different sources bt he is under tremendous pressure to get match. I feel his pain as he has studied for 10+ yrs and is struggling to match nw. I m nt sure hw I can help

Looking to switch from ACN CFM to consulting - been here <6 months but SM is telling me I have to wait 1 year. I’d rather leave than wait a year but want to stay with ACN, is there anything I can do?

has anyone ever been taken off a project early due subpar work?

Anyone from Strategy& open to chat/provide a referral?

What do you think is a good % of your income to save? I hear stories of people not contributing to a 401k, not saving or investing, and just spending it all. Curious what the general consensus on this is

Consulting themed halloween costumes...GO!

Looking to move to New York. As a 25M would you recommend living in Downtown Brooklyn?

Starting to get more involved in the project sales process - any recommendations for books or resources to develop skills in this area?

Serious question: Sheraton cancelled my reservation and I was stranded for a night last night. Called CS and my useless ambassador and they cant help and “sorry”. How do I escalate this?

Has anyone ever been compensated by an airline for delaying your luggage from a gate check? Wondering if it’s worth my time to file a formal complaint. Was flying Delta and sitting first class.

What are the best consulting firms for pricing (consumer goods focused)?

I’ve seen increased interest in virtual assistants (VA) in the past few weeks - have you used a VA and if so, for what tasks? Any recommendations on tasks that are good to outsource?

Some construction work going on in the room next to me at 11pm central time here at the Westin! How many points is this worth?

Opinions on Utilization goals?

Any book recommendations for philosophy, psychology, and business? Or any book you read last year changed your values? Going to fly international, gonna read it on flight. 😍