Thinking about pressing charges: bf's side piece got bold enough to send me a little txt to lmk she's seeing him.. beyond off guard.. to top it off notice suspect credit card charges to discover cont.

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How do people have time for side pieces... I hardly have time to go out with 1 person...

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If you haven't added him as an authorized user on your card (meaning he has a card with his name for the same account), no need to tell the cops just call the bank and say this was an unauthorized charge and explain the boyfriend stole your card. Takes 5-10 mins on the phone.

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Omg who are these losers???? The fact he used your credit card? Does he have a JOB? And she texted you!!??? Count your blessings you found out.... report to your credit card company who will investigate fraud on your behalf - don't bother with the police yourself.

And don't let that bitch side piece get any satisfaction from you! text her and ask which side piece she is? Is this Britney or Amber - I can't keep track, which is why im moving on and so should you!!

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Side pieces should never find out about the main... your bf is sloppy. Be happy you caught on to the carelessness now and move on. No charges.

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No charges, not worth your time. Side piece will always be just a piece of ass for him. His loss - report loss to cc and put it behind you. Don't even give him the time of day.

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So when ya dumping this tool box?

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Tell your bf that you will charge him for fraud. Then tell the side kick about the fact that jewelry she is wearing is from your card. Then run, run , run away from these people till you find good set of friends including a marriage worthy decent bf.

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My low down bf bought this chick jewelry with my card... between confronting him directly and going to the cops, thoughts? Leaning toward cops at this juncture

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Fuck that, time for him to learn.

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with our line of work, who honestly has time to deal with that type of crap? very distracting. ditch the bf, call cc co, move on

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If he has any stuff at your place, but it in a garbage bag and place it outside the door. Spend a few bucks to get your locks changed too (assuming he has a key).

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Sounds like it's time to stop referring to him as your boyfriend.

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Just like shut off block no closure!

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Also, sorry that happened to you.

They are all right! Time to move on but get that Cc straightened out first :).

Alert your bank and the cops.

Just FYI. The credit card may decide to pursue legal action against the BF and arrest him for fraud. You're completely in the right, just fyi if you do want to still see him.

Comedy of errors. A village full of dumb people. They were looking for trouble not the other way around.

Reclaim CC money. Claim Fraud and theft. Post the pic somewhere and caption it. Wrath , fury... the hath and hath nots and so on.

Why are people suggesting that OP not contact the cops to press charges? This guy should have to answer to the authorities and be known as a thief. Punish him with the dehumanizing experience and hassle of being booked, he deserves it.

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