What do you wish non-teachers really understood about this job? For me, it’s how emotionally exhausting it is. I absorb energy, manage crises, hold space for trauma, cheerlead through burnout, mediate conflict, and try to keep 30 humans regulated at once. By the end of the day, I’m drained in a way that’s hard to describe. People always ask, “Why are you so tired? Didn’t you get out at 3?” I wish they could live one day in my classroom and see how much of ourselves we pour into this work.

likefunny
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

I don't care too much what people believe about teachers, though in a very general sense I'd like to see an end to the attacks on the profession. We're not working overtime to politically indoctrinate anyone. And hearing people blame the ills of society and modern parenting on teachers can be aggravating.

likesmart

"Bad teachers are who get remembered the most, and the schools aren’t allowed to get rid of bad teachers easily."
I strongly agree that this is a major problem. I think many of us appreciate the fact that our jobs come with some protection. In my experience you have to try pretty damn hard at getting fired though.

I don’t need non-teachers to understand about how hard I work, or the challenges of my job. And neither do you.

But I would like for the public’s perception and expectations of education to go back to the way people used to look at it. We are merely one piece of the education for the student. And we aren’t remotely the most important part. The student is the most important piece and the family is next most important. Any other ranking system is out of balance, detrimental, and factually incorrect.

We are partners in a child’s education, not superheroes capable of a holistic and complete service to grow a child from birth through college, either in spite of the lack of effort, or against the efforts of the student’s support system.

I blame the problem entirely on a combination of teacher unions publicly posturing for ever greater wages and benefits in spite of diminishing performance, and self important teachers who think that educators are worth more than other workers in the American economy.

I know my worth and yours. And I appreciate the respect and appreciation that I am given. And it’s more than enough.

Maybe you are abused, or mistreated, or ignored. And I’m sorry for that, but I doubt that to be the case in very many places. We deserve a far worse reputation for the field than what we currently enjoy based the terrible performance numbers, the publicly partisan activists abusing their positions to influence students and communities, and the ever increasing reports of predators within our midst.

smartlike

I think it's important to understand that lots and lots of people in other fields feel exactly the same way. They may not have exactly the same challenges and stresses, but they do have their own unique set of concerns. Stresses, pressures, physical tolls, financial problems and often dangers that you have never experienced.
I have a friend who works in the upper/middle corporate world. Makes good money, gets to be creative, sometimes works with celebrities and is in a trendy/cool job with many benefits. Unfortunately they are constantly having to prove their worth to the company. There's an ever lingering threat that if the company has a bad quarter you could lose your job. The CE-whatevers constantly lord this over the employees and there are no protections other than being the hardest worker in the company. When I asked if they resent this the response was, "it just comes with the territory".
I left other fields of to work in education. I'll take the benefits of working in a public school over most other professions. When the grass is greener on the other side, it's probably because it gets crapped on a lot.

likesmarthelpful

What I wish others knew is that, we do not work alone, though the onus is often put solely on us. We work as a team with the family. I am professionally trained, but I need their help. What has worked/not worked with their child? Do they support the teacher/curriculum at home?

I wish our legislators knew that their are not that many bad teachers that we have to get rid of. We should not have to prove that we are good teachers every year, and things like parental involvement and involvement in government and the community are often beyond our control and not what I should be spending my time doing. I am trained to teach. I want to teach. I love teaching. Let me do my job and give me positive support and respect.

Teaching is difficult because working with people is complex. Working with children even more so. Teachers are not just delivering lessons; they are guiding, influencing, and helping shape the next generation. Every student comes with a different personality, learning style, background, and set of challenges, and teachers are expected to meet all of those needs at once.

Beyond academics, teachers help students develop social skills, emotional awareness, and resilience. They manage behaviors, navigate family dynamics, and make daily decisions that can impact a child’s confidence and future opportunities. A single classroom requires constant attention, patience, and adaptability, because what works for one student may not work for another.

While people may focus on schedules or vacations, they often overlook the responsibility that comes with preparing children for the future. Teaching requires emotional labor, critical thinking, and consistent effort, both inside and outside the classroom. The weight of shaping young minds and helping them grow into capable, responsible adults is what makes teaching such a complex and demanding profession.

like

That we are often on the front end or first pointed to when something’s wrong:

my child is upset? Teacher’s fault somehow when children can misunderstand/omit the truth

unruly class? Teacher treated as if incompetent rather than lack of support from teachers aids, admin, families, additional people

things not getting done? Teacher doesn’t care rather than unrealistic expectations with virtually no prep time

Parents upset about something? Teacher hears brunt of frustration that they probably have not much influence on rather than admin that don’t know and don’t want to oppose families/clients wished

Teachers aren’t paid well? Their fault for choosing the profession/not supposed to do it for money when it literally doesn’t pay enough for others to live off of

like

That yoy will always have work to do, even in the evenings if you don't get it done at school.

Related Posts

Hey everyone! Happy almost winter break ❄️

What digital platforms have you been using to engage with students? Especially if it's collaborative or fosters more classroom community.

like

What are your experiences with blended learning in the classroom?

like

What novels do you use in your ELA classrooms? I am curious to see what everyone else is using !

like

I can manage my classroom better if I don’t respond to emails outside of office hours. This gives my mind a break and by consequence refreshes me for the next day. It also sets a boundary.

like

What is the best digital tool you have used in the classroom and what grade level is it best suited for?

likehelpful

How do you integrate mindfulness in your classroom? Have you ever experienced a negative reaction from parents or administration?

like

Hey Coaches! I’m Alyssa, and I’m one of the Community Leaders here at Fishbowl. I’ve been in the classroom for 10 years and a classroom coach for 6 (mainly elementary/Pre-K). Excited to be here!

likeuplifting

If you wold like some assistance with classroom management or even managing your ow children, check this out.

I would love to start teaching and learning outside the classroom walls. I would like to start working with middle school U.S. SS classes in other parts of the US. I'm in NJ, let me know if interested

like

Do you consider your teaching a ministry? How do you do Gods work in the classroom?

likehelpful

I’m a 3rd grade SDC teacher on an emergency credential — had never stepped foot in a classroom before last Tuesday. Can anyone offer advice/resources for lesson plan development? Help!

If you wold like some assistance with classroom management or even managing your owe children, check this out this resource.

likehelpful

I just got brand new iPads for my classroom and need to find some apps that are appropriate for my prek students. We just went back to remote learning today. Does anyone have app suggestions?

Anyone use edgenuity? I'm starting Monday with students, never been trained, no guidance. Don't know how to set expectations if I don't know. ice breaker ideas? I'm not in my classroom.. media center.

Anyone have advice for talking to teachers in your school that are upset with you?
My 4th grade class didn’t show up today because the teachers are upset that student behaviors that are an issue in music are carrying over to their classroom. I understand their frustration, but nothing was communicated with me. I even thought things were going better this week.

Which is the best Gmat coaching class in Bangalore & Surat (Classroom training only). Please help with your experience.

like

Drop your classroom management ideas here. For my school it sure is nice to have a principal who supports a no phone policy.

Just received a text from a team member stating two missionaries that traveled through Tokyo were in my classroom teaching (private school). Said they hired a company to deep clean tonight. Thoughts?

like

I’m thinking about moving up to a high school English position from 8th grade English. Mainly I’m looking for a change. Any thoughts on the differences I’d be facing?

I have high school children of my own, but disciplining high schoolers has always intimidated me for some reason. I have excellent classroom management, but I feel like high schoolers are a little smarter ab getting around rules and less worried about consequences.

I’m told by an hs tchr that the grading load is ab the same.

like

I have a flipped classroom and my biggest challenge today is that my high school students don’t slow down long enough to read the directions/ instructions/ deliverables. Anyone see this happening?

More Posts

Thoughts on kindly asking your bridesmaids to please not give a gift? I am over the moon excited that my bridesmaids will be celebrating me and traveling for the wedding and bachelorette. I really do not want a gift from them at the wedding. Full disclosure, my fiancé and I have great paying jobs and my bridesmaids are grad students, artists, and teachers. How would you frame this? Even if they were millionaires I would not want a gift, but I don’t want it taken the wrong way.

like

Does anyone have ideas for social distancing little kids walking in line? Teaching personal space in moving lines is difficult in normal years, but this year I don't know how I will get them to keep a 6ft. distance as they walk.

like

Any particular segment of sales good for ex-finance? Currently 3 years in at fortune 100 bank on business development side (on commercial loan originations team but no commission/targets at the associate level, basically do credit analysis and build pitch books for the producers) This role has been great as I have gotten both analytical experience and tasted sales experience (I say taste bc I’m not the producer) but would potentially like to transition to a sales role that is less analytical

like

Week 13 of social isolation and we decided to get a cat. She’s here Monday, give me all your tips?

likeuplifting

Hi everyone,
Need an help in getting referred to a position in Wipro
Please help at the earliest,i have the relavant job ID.

like

I’m seriously considering eating dinner at 5:30pm. Does that mean I’m officially old??

likefunnyuplifting

Okay, Audi C7 S6 or 2017 E43 and why?

like

Broadly speaking, does PWC have a stronger brand than EY in the UK? Where would you be more proud to work?

like

What is Accenture Car Lease Policy in India? Please share details. TIA.

like

Hey All,
I finished a third round interview, and HR contacted me that afternoon saying I had positive feedback across the board and they would contact me the next day regarding next steps. It’s been two days and they finally get back to me saying they haven’t been able to sync with the hiring manager but will keep me posted. Honestly I wish they would talk with the hiring manager and then let me know the decision instead of checking in. It’s messing with my emotions.

I’ve had a bad case of work anxiety ever since I started a new job ~7 months ago. The adjustment was ROUGH. I was making mistake after mistake. I powered through and somehow got glowing reviews at year end, with people saying I’ve moved past that point.

I’m convinced I’ve only tricked people and sooner or later they’re gonna catch on. I have extremely bad Sunday scaries, I’m always fighting down my anxiety whenever a new ask comes through. I don’t know what to do.

like

I feel left out in my firm. How do I make 'friends' with my colleagues? I've been here for a year. I am naturally not a very out going person, was never 'cool' and I struggle to speak in group situations / make engaging conversation with higher ups. It is an important trait to have in this job and I just don't know how to do this. It makes me very upset - I even sought therapy but wasn't useful. I can't spend 14 hours each day feeling like this:(

like

Hi, I'm an employee at a hotel chain who works remotely. I've been working remotely for over a year now and I love it! The company I work for is very supportive of remote workers, which is great.

But there's one thing that's been bothering me: it's hard to get feedback on my work when I'm not in the office. It would be great if there was some kind of system that let me know how my performance was being evaluated while I'm working on projects from home.

like

How do you respond when someone asks your salary? Give me both- where you tell a number and where you don't. Also if I'm giving out a number (obviously to a close one), should I say my package(including stocks)? or my in hand salary before tax? or in hand salary after tax?

like

How bad is the attrition in your team/company?

like

Is Google the end game?

likefunny

I'm a recent grad who accepted an entry-level full-time job offer with Capital One. I knew that MBB and other consulting firms rarely ever negotiate salary with new grads, so I didn't with Capital One as well. Was that a mistake? What were the likelihoods that they would have raised my salary? I had no other competing offers at the time

Hello professionals, I am currently working in Supply chain development as SQE with over 8years of experience, but I want to switch over to software developments . I have knowledge on C, C#. As i would be a fresher in the software field, Can you suggest any opportunities as to what I can look out for, and what would be the salary for the fresher level.@

like

Wanna a learn Data Science cource.Anya vs suggestions please

like

Additional Posts in Teachers

like

I read this super interesting article about how big companies like Toyota are investing in social-emotional training for their employees and seeing massive benefits. I actually think this could be a whole separate class for students of all ages. Learning about conflict resolution, growing your own self-regulation skills...it's really important.

likeupliftingsmart

Does anyone have experience working for or using Sylvan Learning Centers?

like

Has anyone done online teaching with VipKid?
I’m considering it as a side job.
Any other ideas/suggestions would be great

like

I am the president of our school board at Franklin Country School Corporation in Brookville, In. I would like to start a NASA Stem project starting in school year 2022-2023. Does anyone know where I need to start?

likehelpful

Tis the season...
Anyone else have a love/hate relationship with NOAA?

Post Photo
like

@McGraw Hill any idea on salary for academic design roles ?

likehelpful

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal