What do you wish you were better at saying “no” to at work? Mine is get-togethers outside of work….

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Mine is I wish I was better at not taking on extra projects and responsibilities especially since my plate is usually always over flowing. But so is everyone else’s and I feel bad saying no to extra projects because I know that will burden someone else but j my place.

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Wow, are we the same person?? Othertimes I feel obligated bc I know no one else will step up to the plate/know how to do it…. But I know this isn't the way and just breeds resentment

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